Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Screw them. "I know
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Just ignore it. Everyone thinks their baby is the smartest, and the cutest. She's being a bitch for talking about your baby, but you know none if it is true. "Thank you. I try it's just hard because I know what she can and can't do they just don't see her everyday to even judge. This makes me wanna be competitive back but I know no one, especially the babies, will benefit
Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::" Thank you. I try it's just hard because I know what she can and can't do they just don't see her everyday ... [snip!] ... her everyday to even judge. This makes me wanna be competitive back but I know no one, especially the babies, will benefit "
Quoting heather2470:" Sorry to hear that. That kind of hurts my feeling for her. They shouldn't be comparing the two babies, everyone does things on thier own time. She is going to eventually pass him by"Thank you. It really hurts my feelings for her, and not only that I feel like she's somehow saying I'm a bad mother because my baby isn't as good as hers or something. Which I know is ridiculous. I hope someday if she does pass him by that everyone finally realizes it doesn't matter. Even adults are different, and we're full grown; they shouldn't be comparing new babies who are just learning everything about the world.
Quoting Raωkeℓ:" Ugh, that must be so frustrating- I'm sorry. I would just start to ignore them."It is, thank you. I want to but at the same time I want Aria to have a friend in her cousin. Its always fun to get the babies together and watch them interact especially now that they're older. But I can't ignore them if I hang out with them, it just really hurts my feelings and its hard for me to hide that.
Quoting NatashaHarper:" I'm sorry to hear that But even if they were born at the same time as in both 2 days before their ... [snip!] ... at a different rate so it's unfair to compare babies, regardless of age difference etc. It's just mean and unnecessary!"Thank you. I know, and everyone said that from the start. So it hurts even more that they'd go behind my back and be like this. I understand everyone is proud of their baby; but to brag isn't really necessary. Like in the family there's a 23 month old and 37 month old, who are on completely different developmental levels, the older boy has autism; they are ALWAYS compared. I don't want this to continue forever.