<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" I wouldn't be all that excited if I were pregnant again for one. And two she told a ton of people about my last pregnancy before I did, lmao. "</blockquote>



But this was my first child. That's why I was upset and I didn't want everyone to know so soon just in case of a miscarriage so I only wanted close family like mom and dad and mother in law and father in law and that was it but she went to told everyone without my wishes.

Quoting Mumz:" Oh because you were sitting beside me. No I was ok at first, then shortly after I wanted to tell her ... [snip!] ... its done and over. Ill get over it. I see it was pointless. I got worked up over nothing. But some of the comments were mean..."

I can only form an opinion based on what you wrote. You didn't write "At first I was okay with it and then later I got pissed off.". You wrote that you were pissed off because she announced her pregnancy 30 min after you did and you wanted to write a comment telling her she should have waited. I'm not a mind reader, write the entire story the first time if you don't want anyone making assumptions. It probably would have gone differently had you put that it wasn't upsetting until she started making pointed comments about you.

Quoting 3 little monsters:" I can only form an opinion based on what you wrote. You didn't write "At first I was okay with it and ... [snip!] ... probably would have gone differently had you put that it wasn't upsetting until she started making pointed comments about you. "

Well sorry for not smurfing expressing myself properly. Some of you women on this site are no better than kids that bully other kids. And im the childish petty one. No one should be talked to the way I was. It is possible to comment on a post and not be such a bitch

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mumz:</b>" Well sorry for not smurfing expressing myself properly. Some of you women on this site are no better than ... [snip!] ... the childish petty one. No one should be talked to the way I was. It is possible to comment on a post and not be such a bitch"</blockquote>




Uh you are the childish one. You are mad because people are not agreeing with you. Maybe when you pop out baby number five you can ask that all people who are pregnant refrain from using Facebook for 24 hours.

Quoting Mumz:" Well sorry for not smurfing expressing myself properly. Some of you women on this site are no better than ... [snip!] ... the childish petty one. No one should be talked to the way I was. It is possible to comment on a post and not be such a bitch"

I haven't seen anything on this thread like that; people were being blunt with you, not trying to bully you. You asked opinions and you got them.

Quoting Mumz:" Well sorry for not smurfing expressing myself properly. Some of you women on this site are no better than ... [snip!] ... the childish petty one. No one should be talked to the way I was. It is possible to comment on a post and not be such a bitch"

You're the one swearing at me and then giving advise on how not to be a bitch, LOL. Your post was petty and childish. Don't get upset with me for pointing out where your mistake was. If you don't want to be told the truth then don't ask or post then entire story. You can't expect us to fill in the extra bits on our own and then act like a petulant child because we took your post exactly as it was written.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mumz:</b>" Would it not be frustrating if she told her SIL she was going to wait a few weeks, but did it after me because she wanted to piss me off?"</blockquote>



How old are you ??!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mumz:</b>" What no one gets is that at first I was ok with it. Then after I heard all the bashing she was saying ... [snip!] ... done in. If she wouldve announced it and that was that I wouldnt care. But she basically did it on purpose just to be a bitch."</blockquote>



Who cares. Really. Youre acting like a little kid. Grow up

Quoting Mumz:" Well sorry for not smurfing expressing myself properly. Some of you women on this site are no better than ... [snip!] ... the childish petty one. No one should be talked to the way I was. It is possible to comment on a post and not be such a bitch"

Wait... did you like have your kids at 15 and are working on your 4th at 21? That would explain a lot.

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" Wait... did you like have your kids at 15 and are working on your 4th at 21? That would explain a lot."

 

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" Wait... did you like have your kids at 15 and are working on your 4th at 21? That would explain a lot."

What are you talking about? I am 25. Not sure where you're getting your info from.

Quoting 3 little monsters:" You're the one swearing at me and then giving advise on how not to be a bitch, LOL. Your post was petty ... [snip!] ... to fill in the extra bits on our own and then act like a petulant child because we took your post exactly as it was written. "

I wasnt calling you a bitch. I get it that I overreacted but. Theres no need for people to attack me. And I appreciate the advise I was given, which is why I asked. I "wanted" to know wether or not it was pointless. So im over it, theres no need for anyone to keep going on and on. I've had someone announce they were pregnant rite after me before and I was happy for them, in fact I was thrilled. But they didnt do it in a malicious way like this person did. I dont think its a big deal. Just how it was done.

Quoting Mumz:" What are you talking about? I am 25. Not sure where you're getting your info from."

I was speculating on why you're so petty for a soon to be mom of 4  

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" I was speculating on why you're so petty for a soon to be mom of 4   "

If I was so petty as everyone says. Why would she call me and apologize for what she did, and said afterwards. And I told no one about how I felt. As I have said before I have had someone announce their pregnancy rite after me. And I didnt care. This time was different. Im over it now.

Quoting Mumz:" If I was so petty as everyone says. Why would she call me and apologize for what she did, and said afterwards. ... [snip!] ... before I have had someone announce their pregnancy rite after me. And I didnt care. This time was different. Im over it now."

Her appology for a percieved faux pas has zero to do with the fact that it was petty bullsmurf to begin with.