Quoting .Colleen.:" The OP is a very thinly veiled attempt to continue the pissing contest with AP being the "martyrs". ... [snip!] ... I parent I wish people would stfu about who is"right" and just parent their kid(s) in the best, most loving way they can."
Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" I'm a little of both, and I hate that we are pitted against each other all the time. "