|yes your are|
|NO he should respect the schedule|
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" okay so I share custody of my kids with their dad, he made the custody scheduled so it's the one we've ... [snip!] ... off tuesday afteroon instead IDK why I didnt ask i just took them... I dont want to punish my son it's not his fault.. IDK "
Quoting Kriste loves her babies!:" would you get him tomorrow then?"No he stil would have them, i planned my party for him for the 8th because i respected that Monday is always his night and like he didnt ask me until 9am this morning..
Quoting Mylittleone's (B.B.M):" I would tell him if you get him today I get him tomorrow on his birthday it's only fair"
Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" So swap days ... He gets him today, you get him tomorrow?"I would swap him days but for school i have to go to this math tutor monday and wensdays so i can get my grade 12..
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" I think he should take him on his day. Unless, you can get him on a holiday that you wouldnt have him on. That the only way Id change it. "in the past ive been very leanent about letting him have them on days that werent his but i am trying to have consistancy for them and get them on a schedule
Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:</b>" No he stil would have them, i planned ... [snip!] ... would it be hurting to allow him to have him today? Or maybe split today with him? Or bring the baby to the party he planned?"no it woudnt hurt for him to have him but i am sick of feeling like i gatta bend to his every whim, i didnt get to have my kids on christmas bc his family does the same thing every year.. He made the custody arrangement.. i dont know how hard it is for him to plan a party on a day when he has them, I do it and never ask for them on his time