Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" no it woudnt hurt for him to have him but i am sick of feeling like i gatta bend to his every whim, i ... [snip!] ... i dont know how hard it is for him to plan a party on a day when he has them, I do it and never ask for them on his time"

So don't bend to his whim. Why did he make up the custody arrangement... why didnt you do what works for you too?

Quoting FroggysMommy:" So don't bend to his whim. Why did he make up the custody arrangement... why didnt you do what works for you too?"

At the time i just wanted him to take our kids more than 1 day a week. So i dont know where he came up with the schedule we have but he did and well it was working for awhile but he tries to say its 50/50 when it is not ive added it up he only has them 144 hours a month i have them 546 yup totaly 50/50