|yes your are|
|NO he should respect the schedule|
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" no it woudnt hurt for him to have him but i am sick of feeling like i gatta bend to his every whim, i ... [snip!] ... i dont know how hard it is for him to plan a party on a day when he has them, I do it and never ask for them on his time"
Quoting FroggysMommy:" So don't bend to his whim. Why did he make up the custody arrangement... why didnt you do what works for you too?"At the time i just wanted him to take our kids more than 1 day a week. So i dont know where he came up with the schedule we have but he did and well it was working for awhile but he tries to say its 50/50 when it is not ive added it up he only has them 144 hours a month i have them 546 yup totaly 50/50