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Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" So on top of being indirectly violent towards ... [snip!] ... I'd be cut off.financially and my credit.would be destroyed. I've been looking for jobs but I have.no sitter.or.qualifications"

Why does that have to be the final straw? Why isn't this enough? I'm not saying that you can pull a million bucks out of your ass, but you can't look at it like that. I would seriously look into local shelters, your credit can be repaired.

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Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" So him abusing you with THINGS (a door) would ... [snip!] ... her with open arms. I asked my mom if I could stay and explained and she said no. They simply don't have the room or the money"

So because your mother said no, you're going to punish yourself and your family and settle for violence and misery? How would you feel if he escalated tot he point where he abused your children and you hadn't gotten out when you knew it was bad. You can say he'd never do that all day but he's willing to hurt the mother of his children, what makes you think he will stop there?

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Why does that have to be the final straw? Why ... [snip!] ... like I can make it. I can last just a few more months and I'll be okay. I want to get a car and start driving and get a jib."

So a few months from now will be different and you will leave? If it were that easy, why haven't you already done that. It kind of sounds like your lacking the motivation to actually change your situation. You're miserable and scared, but will defend him when people tell you that you should leave immediately. I understand that abusive relationships are hard and complicated, but no one is going to come in and make it easier to get out out. It's only going to get harder.

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Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" So because your mother said no, you're going ... [snip!] ... a shelter. There are others who have.it much worse than.me. My plan is to stay until May and when our lease is up, we'll move"

A shelter would be better than that. Staying in a shelter generally bumps you to the top of the wait list for housing, which you can still get without a job.

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Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" A shelter would be better than that. Staying ... [snip!] ... bumps you to the top of the wait list for housing, which you can still get without a job."</blockquote> How?"

how? idk, I know a lot of women who have them. I lived in a section 8 apartment for a year, I had a job but not everyone that lived there did. There is so much help & programs out there for single mothers.

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Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" how? idk, I know a lot of women who have ... [snip!] ... There is so much help & programs out there for single mothers."</blockquote> Do you.have any links or anything?"

for what specifically? section 8?

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" A shelter would be better than that. Staying ... [snip!] ... bumps you to the top of the wait list for housing, which you can still get without a job."</blockquote> How?"

A woman's advocate can help you find a place to stay, they can help you find a job. They can help with transportation, daycare... Pretty much everything. That's why I posted earlier and asked if there was one where you live.

Quoting Twin's Mommy:" A woman's advocate can help you find a place to stay, they can help you find a job. They can help with ... [snip!] ... with transportation, daycare... Pretty much everything. That's why I posted earlier and asked if there was one where you live."