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Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" you know how I feel about this and him .... ... [snip!] ... on ne and a shell of wbo I was. I'm a wreck emotionally. I need to get control of myself and my life back first. Baby steps."

I said this ages ago that with how he's got you trapped, the only way you're getting out of there is when he kills you. Its heading that way, he's gotten violent before and the only reason he hasn't done again is probably because he's to smurfing lazy.

I'm sure you have, but I'm going to ask anyway, but have you ever told him that it's alcohol or your family?

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" you know how I feel about this and him .... ... [snip!] ... on ne and a shell of wbo I was. I'm a wreck emotionally. I need to get control of myself and my life back first. Baby steps."

I know it isn't easy. I haven't been in this exact situation but I have to tell you that if you want to leave badly enough, it will happen. When I finally left, it was amazing. It's hard to see that when you are around someone so damn toxic.

Have you been drinking?

You're an amazing wife. don't let him tell you otherwise lady. he's ib the wrong here...not you. and if he doesnt seek help...you need to leave for the safety of yourself and your son.

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" No, not in sickness & in health. This ... [snip!] ... nowhere for you to go? No shelters? No Safehouse? No friends?"</blockquote> Nope. Not without being a huge burden"

Where do you live?

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And I hate that he has done this to you and your family as well, but I am extremely proud of you for being able to verbalize that he is doing these things, and is choosing to hurt you and your family.Now you just have to do something to protect yourself and your family.

You cannot will people to change. You cannot talk people into changing. You cannot reason with someone who is unreasonable. You cannot make someone be who they are capable of being.

Domestic violence does not get better.


"I have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential. I have fallen in love more times than I care to count with the highest potential of a man, rather than with the man himself, and I have hung on to the relationship for a long time (sometimes far too long) waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in romance I have been a victim of my own optimism.” - Elizabeth Gilbert

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Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Raωkeℓ:</b>" I'm so sorry you're going through this. ... [snip!] ... how you're feeling while he's sober?"</blockquote> Oh yes. See, I'M a smurffy wife who "can't accept his faulta.""

Wow, what a piece of smurf.  
No one deserves abuse. If your family or friends don't support you, find a shelter that will. I know it's so hard to do but you don't want your little one(s) seeing this.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Twin's Mommy:</b>" I'm sure you have, but I'm going to ask anyway, but have you ever told him that it's alcohol or your family?"</blockquote>




Yes,.alcohol and his friends win every time

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" Have you been drinking? "</blockquote> Me? No, why?"

You should get your baby and leave. If you are scared hes going to hit you you dont need to stay there. You need to leave and never look back. You dont want your baby growing up thinking that is ok.

Quoting The Master:" I said this ages ago that with how he's got you trapped, the only way you're getting out of there is ... [snip!] ... heading that way, he's gotten violent before and the only reason he hasn't done again is probably because he's to smurfing lazy."

 

Get out while you can.