Ranta-Lanta- MOTHER FRIGGEN DING DONG !!

So, for the past month, off and on SO's brother has been staying with us off and on because of other issues. and for a while i was fine with but now, I just want him SmUrfING GONE!

out house is small enough as is, we just have a one bedroom basement suite, and its tight enough with just me and SO, never mind our "guest". To access the bathroom you have to go through our bedroom, and apparently on mornings that me and SO have been sleeping in, he has just been going outside to use the bathroom, whitch ok your a guy you can pee were you want, BUT WE HAVE NEIGHBORS!!@@@!@#!%!

WITH SMALL CHILDREN!

he doesnt even really help out that much around the house. leave dishes and pop bottles everywere, and is continuously just causing chaos. he like, never showers.... so i want to stream clean my couch ASAP.

he left a cookie sheet in the oven today.... with pogo sticks on it. THANK GOD SO was smart enough to check the oven about 5 mins after turning it on or we would have had a fire.

the smurffy thing is - he doesnt chip in much, other than like his junk food. all he does when not working (and he works with us :/ ) is sit on his computer and watch videos of other people playing video games. or play So's videogames and leave the system on ALL DAY! even when not playing it. he broke my desktop tower by putting his on it and moving smurf around so now i have to ggo get the case and all the ports re wired and attached....


Me and So are TTC and this stress i just killing me, work is crazy busy again and its only going to get busier and i cannot deal with this extra stress, i justdont know how to tell him to get the hell out!

he has a hmoe to go to and ya there are issues there, but him being here is causing other issues!


grrrr..... sorry, just needed to vent/rant.....frustrated and currently running off caffine. (8+ hour shifts with next to no sleep)

If he has a home to live in then why is he living in your home? You need to sit your SO down and let him know how you feel about this situation.

He is 23 and still lives with his mother, who is an addict.

i can understand him needing to get out now and then (he was raised pretty sheltered, and doesn't really get out much, and is also pretty odd in general)

i have tried talking to SO about it but he essentially shugs it off and says he will be gone soon.