Quoting :Brittany::" We don't have much money...literally enough to pay bills. He threatened tonight to take all money out ... [snip!] ... most of her life, but our son is almost 5 and he gets super emotional when he deploys so I know this is going to tear him up."
Quoting Red Bottom:" You are married so regardless of where he puts that money, you will be entitled to half of it. Documenting ... [snip!] ... with nothing, on top of being verbally abusive and becoming violent and controlling. You REALLY need to let his command know. "
Quoting :Brittany::" How do I go about that?? Do I email the ombudsman and explain everything?"
Quoting Red Bottom:" I wouldn't do it in writing, it's not as personal. You need to have someone physically speak to you whether it's on the phone or in person. Then they will have to address the situation immediately. "
Quoting :Brittany::" Ok, maybe i can email the ombudsman and have her call me. I know the one from command functions so I would be comfortable spilling my guts to her so to speak."
Quoting Red Bottom:" I would personally call her and not email her and ask for a call. You need to make the point that this ... [snip!] ... that this is an urgent issue that needs to be dealt with immediately. Not something that can wait for someone's free time. "
Quoting :Brittany::" He went out after putting the kids to bed tonight so I called the ombudsmand I am cordial with and explained ... [snip!] ... to the ship tomorrow and I feel safe in the decisions made at this point. I'm ready to move forward and get where I need to go"