Quoting Amydb:" I'm 33 and I hate to tell you this but most my guy friends are still drinking cod addicts. I don't think they grow up.. at least till maybe 50 yrs."
Quoting Red Bottom:" Sounds like he's pretty immature and probably wasn't ready to have a baby in the first place, if his ... [snip!] ... his homies. What he said sounds like a basic emotional and in the moment reaction, not something genuinely thought through."
Quoting Alissa McKeighan:" Sounds like a fairly typical twenty-one-years-old male, to me. Give him another decade or so. Seriously, ... [snip!] ... or so. Seriously, though... A schedule would help to ease the tension immensely. Children need some structure in their lives."
Quoting Alissa McKeighan:" My husband is twenty-seven and works full-time and attends university to become a mechanical engineer. ... [snip!] ... video games. I, on the other hand, DO enjoy a good RPG on occasion. Everybody matures in their own time...or not at all. Haha"