pre seed lubricant?

hi,my periods have been outta wak ever since i miscarried at 6 weeks in oct.2011. i tried 8 months got pregnant and lost it. Now ive been trying for a little over a year. i think ihave trouble getting pregnant because my periods were always messed up and never the same time. so for the past 2 months ive been on birthcontrol getting them on track and for the past 2 months they have started 30 days from each other so there pretty on track i guess. i saw online about this pre~seed lubricant that is sperm friendly and helps fertility (fertility friendly). ive seen so many people say its awesome and it works..my questions are. when should i start using it. i started my period on 1/1/2013 and if my period goes like it has im supposed to start on 1/31/2013 i believe..the pre~seed only come with 9 applicators that you use but you can also use your hang to put it on but id rather use the applicators to help it get up in there.. so when should i start using it..should i use it with the applicators right away or like between the 12-20th or what? and also i wanna know anyones sucess storys with this pre~seed did it or did it not work for you..i seriously dont know where else to turn..doctor has told me that my body is fine to have a baby..they said since my miscarriage my body will know whats going on they said i lost it because my body didnt know what was going on but they said if i get pregnant again i shouldnt lose it. someone please help! give me any tips or helpful things with pre seed!...sorry its so long and may be confusing! thanks for any help!

for the periods you could also try B6 ( it's a vitamin you can buy for cheap). Mine were random, they would either come day 25,26,27,28 every cycle was different.

Pre-seed I used but it didn't seem to make much of a difference with me. We tried for 2 years and had 2 losses before I became pregnant now.

I used pre-seed in a diva cup ( a menstrual cup but it can be used for TTC too) so after my husband and I would have sex I would put pre-seed in there and put the cup in and elevate my hips a few times while I had it in, I would keep it in like 24 hours tops.

A lot of couples can take a year or more to conceive so don't lose hope yet.

I also took pre-natals even when I wasn't pregnant just to have my body in the right zone for a baby.

Good luck!

I liked preseed, but only used the applicator thing once. I felt it put way too much in and didn't like that part of it. I ended up using it to play with my husband and, umm, 'applied' it that way! lol. We TTC for 14 months, 4 of those on Clomid, and the last cycle was on Clomid and preseed and got pregnant. In my box, it said that you can wash the applicators to reuse them.

Everyone's different, but I would NOT use BC to regulate your cycles. Lots of women have fertility issues after getting off BC, so I don't see how that would help. If your periods are all over the place, it's because you're not ovulating. When you ovulate, that is what causes your period to come about 14 days after. If you're not Oing, you're not going to be regular. I would talk to your doc about getting blood work done to see if you are Oing. They take blood on CD21 and test it. If you're not ovulating, preseed isn't going to help.

she can still be oing with irreqular periods, i know from experience because when i got off BC my periods were crazy (every 3 months) so i couldn't really track my ovulation so DH and i just gave up and didn't think about tracking or anything like that and just did it naturally and boom i was pregnant and found out when i was like 2 months cause i didn't even know lol. and now he's a happy healthy walking talking one year old. so trust me you still ovulate just as long as af is coming ur still oing.

thanks everyone im trying this preseed and hoping it works! its hard to not give up hope but im trying to stay strong!

Quoting *Christa* [Corbins mommy!:" she can still be oing with irreqular periods, i know from experience because when i got off BC my periods ... [snip!] ... he's a happy healthy walking talking one year old. so trust me you still ovulate just as long as af is coming ur still oing."

Okay, I stand corrected. You're not Oing regularly, if at all. I had an AF and wasn't Oing. It just came every 21, 30, 26, 35, 14 days.   OP, I would just talk to your doc about it or start temping. Have you tried that? A good website for it is Fertilityfriend.com.

havent tried temp. it sounded to confusing. ha