Love my sister..but she is wrong

I love my sister and it hurts me for the choices she has made. I can not change her and I feel like she has to learn from her mistakes but this is my big sister who is 36 years old and still making those same mistakes. She has now 6 kids (19years old to 14months) and is dating a 21 year old who actually tired to have sex with my other sister(on christmas day) and for some reason my sister still wants to still be with this boy. She even pick this boy over her own kids, they are staying with my brother while her and her boyfriend live in a hotel. She was doing much better before she got with him. I love my sister and we was really close but it seems like she has made her choice. She has pick this guy over the family and i'm so hurt. END OF VENT

is he abusing her. sometimes when the abuser is harming the victim this can and does happen.

Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" is he abusing her. sometimes when the abuser is harming the victim this can and does happen. "

not that i know of and omg i hope not...she was talking about she loved him within in 2 months of talking to him and the only places they would go was to the club together.

Quoting MrsRelli:" not that i know of and omg i hope not...she was talking about she loved him within in 2 months of talking to him and the only places they would go was to the club together. "

i would sit down with her and have a heart to heart talk. most of the time the victim will not say it but there body reads it.

Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" is he abusing her. sometimes when the abuser is harming the victim this can and does happen. "

 
Happened to my sister.

Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" i would sit down with her and have a heart to heart talk. most of the time the victim will not say it but there body reads it. "

she avoids us all the time now it's kind of scary...we also believe she is pregnant again

Quoting MrsRelli:" she avoids us all the time now it's kind of scary...we also believe she is pregnant again"

sounds like a victim if you as me. pushing away from loved one and close friends is a huge red flag. if she is being abused she might feel as tho it is her fault and she will blame herself and push away so she doesnt feel the guilt. but what she doesnt understand is its not her fault.

he also might be controlling her and making her not talk to family and friends.