re: Gay Child?

<blockquote><b>Quoting JessieLeeAnne:</b>" I had to back my friend up the other day. She took a picture of her son over a friend's house and he ... [snip!] ... is his friend's toy and she says, "Gotcha." Like who the smurf cares what color the toy is? People can be so friggin ignorant. "</blockquote>




My little cousin is 5 and his favourite colour is pink. His mom and my uncle let him have pink toys and they don't care what people think. He also has a "girlfriend" so people can't say he's gay... I wish all people were like that.

Quoting kthx.:" OMG. I remember doing it in front of my mom. Not like full on naked, hand on vagina   But I was ... [snip!] ... couch   Kind of like grind on it. My mom was like, "Sam, if you're going to do that... go to your room and do it."  "

Yupp, that's how I was. I was fully clothed, I just humped stuff LOL.

<blockquote><b>Quoting JessieLeeAnne:</b>" I had to back my friend up the other day. She took a picture of her son over a friend's house and he ... [snip!] ... is his friend's toy and she says, "Gotcha." Like who the smurf cares what color the toy is? People can be so friggin ignorant. "</blockquote>

That's like I was walking in the mall with my niece when she was smaller and she was wearing a little blue and green dress with a bow in her hair and someone commented how "he" was so cute. I'm like uhm she's wearing a DRESS with frilly socks little Mary Jane shoes and has a BOW in HER hair. Just cuz she's wearing pale blue (which is more girlish than boyish IMO) doesn't mean she's a boy smh.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" OMG. I remember doing it in front of my mom. Not like full on naked, hand on vagina   But I was ... [snip!] ... couch   Kind of like grind on it. My mom was like, "Sam, if you're going to do that... go to your room and do it."  "</blockquote>



I was a pool jet kinda girl...  

I didn't figure out my sexuality until adulthood (bisexual) . I have a bisexual uncle who didn't know he was into guys until he was an adult either (after having a kid even he realized he had a preference to men, didn't have sex with one until his husband but yeah) . Even then, I wouldn't question it. Kid's are smarter and more aware of themselves than people think. It's totally possible.

My oldest daughter (13) has had crushes on girls before , like her youngest crush at 5-6 years old was a girl. I don't believe she's figured that out yet, she has plenty of time in the world though and I'd support her regardless. She knows about gay/lesbian/pansexual/bisexual issues and trans issues but I don't think that's why she ever crushed on girls, and she might be straight . Regardless, I'm supporting her with whatever she wants. The only thing I know is that she mentally thinks she's a female so she's cisgendered. My step kids have both demonstrated interest in the opposite sex only though, who knows , but regardless I'll love them and wouldn't question it if they said they were gay/straight/bisexual/pansexual or even trans at some point in their life even if they were 7.

Having several gay,bi, and les family members, they all have always said they always knew but never openly said it due to fear of what others may say or think. I personally wouldn't know.

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" Did you run around tryin to kiss boys or girls when you were 4 even?"

I ran around kissing girls when I was maybe 7 or so. I still don't have my sexuality figured out, and I'm 20. I'd wish to have known at 7, hahaha. But I definitely think you could know if you like boys or girls at that age

I had "boyfriends" ever since kindergarten.   I realized I was sexually attracted to both sexes at about the age of 9. I think a seven year old could definitely comprehend the fact that they're attracted to kids of the same sex, but may grow into their sexuality and really understand more once puberty hits.

I knew that I had no predisposition to any gender or variant from a very early age. I loved everyone.

Quoting Commander Shepard:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" OMG. I remember doing it in front of my mom. Not ... [snip!] ... if you're going to do that... go to your room and do it."  "</blockquote> I was a pool jet kinda girl...  "

I later figured out the faucet in the bathtub.....  

Quoting kthx.:" BTW, you don't have to have any type of sexual interaction to know you're gay. Did you have sex with a man before you realized you were straight?"

This.I cant STAND it when people say "Well that person hasnt done anything so how would they know?"

I guess the same could be said... when you started liking boys and wanted to ask one out, how would you REALLY know you liked him, you never did anything with a boy!

**rolls eyes** I knew I was attracted to boys and was straight LONG before I ever did anything with one.

There were lots of things I didn't figure out until I was older. I learned what 'bisexual' was, and called myself that until somewhat recently. I discovered attractions that I had beyond the "either male or female" concept. Now I'm toying with the label 'pansexual'.
I think sexuality is something that most likely isn't fully figured out at a young age, but most have at least an idea by puberty.

Im sorry, but no ma'am, posting your son's premature sexuality online is a parental sin. How dare you try to turn your child into a public target/topic; what other purpose for this than personal gain. I understand some of these parents are bored with their lives, but seriously, getting attention using your child is just neurotic. Im 100% supporting your child, but something like thatshould remain private until the child at least reaches puberty and has his own blog because I guarantee he will not be interested in explaining his mom's indiscretion when he is in high school. What you put online is online forever. Blog about your own life, not achild. Jesus!!!!!!

Quoting Cynthia Worley:" Im sorry, but no ma'am, posting your son's premature sexuality online is a parental sin. How dare you ... [snip!] ... when he is in high school. What you put online is online forever. Blog about your own life, not achild. Jesus!!!!!!"

You are overreacting.... a lot.