Ugh! WHY!?

I have NO sex drive! None whatsoever! It's so annoying! Ever since I had my son almost 14 months ago I have completely lost it. Occasionally ill want to have sex, but it's VERY rare that I want it. When hubby wants to I feel like in dragging. It's so hard for me to get fired up. Seems like I can't climax unless he gives me really good oral or using the vibrator, which he doesn't try to use. I don't feel/look sexy at all, I'm 30-40 pounds heavier from what I weighed before pregnancy.
Does anyone have ANY tips, suggestions on how I can spice it up?

im in the same boat... have been since a week before i found out i am pregnant. My poor hubby is hurting lol, i wont even let him touch me.

I stopped wanting sex back in July I was around 9 weeks along. when we did have sex I would feel sea sick so my husband stopped wanting sex but wanted us to play with each other and it just doesn't sound fun and I just can't get turned on enough to do anything with him.. and I am now 33 almost 34 weeks poor thing.. haha I hope it comes back after I have her.. but who knows