on new years even i was rushed to hospital due to my gallbladder, however as everyone knows, thats the evening when everybody likes to go out for a drink....
including my partner (i told him to go and enjoy himself) however i was left on my own and had a sudden gallbladder attack to which i took myself and my 2 children hospital (i live so far away from my family and my partner was far away too also he had been drinking so he was uable to drive, leaving me no option but to take them with me.) while in hospital i was told i needed to be addmitted and find someone to take my children at 4 in the morning. i was unable to call anyone as they were drunk or had there phones off. the hospital decided that it was time to call the social services (child services) to let them know what had happend and that i had no support (which i do!! it was just the worst night as it was nye) anyway in the end i got hold of my ex partner 3 hours later and he picked them up at 6 am... HAPPY DAYS.
however my aunty called me and i told her what was said and what had happend.. and that my children was safe because they were with there dad.
she then decided to take it amongst herself and write on my mums wall that my children were being taken into care if she didnt get down to the hospital. ON FACEBOOK OF ALL PLACES!! so my mother had ppl inboxing asking why child services were getting involved... (but how bad dose this look on me, like i am a unfit mother) !! she didnt even write it was because i was taken into hospital) anyway when i found out i said something to my aunty and she hit the roof!!!
i am no longer allowed to speak to her or call.... all the stuff she bought my baby are being put in the bin... and i am no longer allowed to see my grandmother (who she lives with) and she said so what... it wasnt ment for other ppl... and she took it off within 5 mins.. LIES.
how do i deal with this idiot of a person!? and why should i allow ppl to spead my buissness. !
I'd be pissed too. It kinda does seem bad that she didn't write that it was because you were in the hospital. She shouldn't be shunning you for being concerned about you reputation, SHE should be shunned for putting your business out like that, imo. Idk how to handle it, or have any advice. sorry.
Tell your aunt CALMLY that if she wanted your mother to know, she could've called, texted, privately messaged her...anything... not thrown your business up for everyone to see. If she doesn't understand that, try making her understand in a few days when you've both calmed down. About your grandmother, she has absolutely NO right to withhold your grandmothers presence from you. You can never get that time back if God forbid she passed away or something. Is your grandmother mobile? Ask your mother when the post was deleted. She would have gotten a notification about when it was posted. And even if it was deleted in 5 minutes, it shouldn't have been there to begin with. Sorry if this is all over the place lol