Relax!!!! I know it may not be the easiest thing to do with a weiner going up your anus but it will help so much. Use plenty of lube.
The best position I've found if I'm not really in the mood or just to start off is like spooning. He can get access but it is limited to how deep he can get. Allows you to warm up first before going to different positions.
I wanna try it too! Ive done ut before with an ex and liked it. I know my SO would try but we've talked a little but he's said that he would never do that because he had a Prince Albert piercing. Has anyone done it with someone that is pierced???