Feeling unwanted/unloved

For the past month i have felt very unwanted in my relationship. SO works all the time, he dont really "help" me with the kids, yes he pays the bills & buys us just about everything we want...but i feel something is missing. We dont have much of a sex life anymore & i think that is what really bothers me. He is always to tired to have sex or is hurting.

Sometimes i feel like i have to make bargins with him to have sex with me.
Last night was the first time in a lil over a week that we had sex & once again i found myself bargining with him for sex. I shouldnt have to do that right?

We used to have sex every night before bed, i can actually relax enough to go to sleep after sex.

I just dont get it :/

He's probably just tired

Quoting Tat'd Bitch+3:" For the past month i have felt very unwanted in my relationship. SO works all the time, he dont really ... [snip!] ... We used to have sex every night before bed, i can actually relax enough to go to sleep after sex. I just dont get it :/"

I guess I would be really concerned to go from such an active sex life to him not wanting to do it at all. That doesn't sound quite normal to me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Regina George:</b>" I guess I would be really concerned to go from such an active sex life to him not wanting to do it at all. That doesn't sound quite normal to me. "</blockquote>




I know  
It doesnt seem normal to me either.
Its like he only wants to have sex when HE wants it.

My man claims he is tired all the time but on his days off he has sex with me but like you I feel like I have to beg. He is so lazy and just always wants me to blow him or for me to be on top   So I talked to him about how I felt and I can tell he is making an effort. Today he actually took me to dinner came home and had sex with me. It was a good day today lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Avery’s momma:</b>" My man claims he is tired all the time but on his days off he has sex with me but like you I feel like ... [snip!] ... can tell he is making an effort. Today he actually took me to dinner came home and had sex with me. It was a good day today lol"</blockquote>




I know how you feel. SO uses to ask for BJs alot & id do it. I hate giving him BJs, but i do it. I asked him when we had a sex life if i could randomly give him a BJ whenever, he said yeah... Now he wont even let me touch it. :/ I told him lastnight that when he does this it makes me feel like im not good wnough, or maybe hes cheating, when i bring up him cheating he always says when do i have time? Im always working or with you...Qhy cant we just have our sex life back??? Ughh..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tat'd Bitch+3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Avery’s momma:</b>" My man claims he is tired all the time but ... [snip!] ... cheating he always says when do i have time? Im always working or with you...Qhy cant we just have our sex life back??? Ughh.."</blockquote>




Maybe he's depressed because he's always working or with you. Everyone needs time away.


Maybe tell him to have a night out with the guys next time he has a day off, and try bumpin' uglies when he gets home. Always worked with my ex.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tat'd Bitch+3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Avery’s ... [snip!] ... have a night out with the guys next time he has a day off, and try bumpin' uglies when he gets home. Always worked with my ex."</blockquote>




He wont go hang out with anyone without me there. He likes going to the club & just sittin there & talking to people. Im not very socialable & i had a pirior drinking problem so i try to advoid those places