Delusions

So DH had a vasectomy a zillion years ago (15), ten years before we met, and so we have used donor sperm to help us conceive and plan on doing so again in April. Now, he never went for his check up afterwards to see if he had any swimmers left. Now, my ovulation has been unpredictable as I am still nursing my LO, but I am fairly sure I ovulated Christmas Eve and we "BD"ed normally around then. Anyways... all this to say I so want it to be... I was so exhausted today that I fell asleep during LO's nap time and could barely get my butt up when he woke. Can we stop waiting to try already? !! Baby fever has hit me hard.

Oh! Also, maybe tmi but the only time I have ever had a sleep orgasm was while I was pregnant with my son. And last night. Lol.

If he has no sperm your not really baby dancing.. Your having sex right?

Or are you saying he may now have some?

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" If he has no sperm your not really baby dancing.. Your having sex right? Or are you saying he may now have some?"

She said he never went back to make sure the surgery was successful she he could have swimmers.

First I would go see if his vasectomy even took in the first place, all those years ago. I don't see a point in thinking you're BD (rather than just calling it sex) if he cannot physically get your pregnant. Seems like if I were in that situation, it would get my hopes up.

I'm saying we don't know if he has some. Anything I have read says that cases where it came back were mostly over ten years after the vasectomy. Which is why the BD was in brackets. And why it is delusional thinking hahaha. Our son sure looks a hellova lot like him. Maybe his little soldiers just need motivation to get off their lazyboy chairs hahaha.

I'm totally just getting my hopes up. Sigh. Maybe I will drag him in to get tested one of these days.

I'd say go get him tested to make sure. It will put your mind at ease if nothing else  

Cant he just get a reversal done if you guys want to TTC?

Quoting Misty Walls:" Cant he just get a reversal done if you guys want to TTC?"

Yeah I don't understand why they didn't do this instead of use donor sperm to have their LO they have now.

Reversals after ten years are less than ten percent successful. And it has been that and a half. Having the option to have an "oops" would be nice, though, lol.