Im a little scared

This is my 3rd pregnancy. My first 2 deliveries were so short that I ended up giving natural births. I dont want to go through that again   the only way I can think to describe it: I was literally trying to get away from my own back. Ugh, back labor. So my first labor was 5 hours and my 2nd was 2 hours. I cant have an epideral because I have 6 herniated disks all in my lower back. I want an IV!!!! Every time I have an appointment to actually see my dr. I end up seeing a nurse practioner bcz hes always too busy. It worrys me. Who am I supposed to let know that I want pain medication? Also that I dont want an episotomy? Im freakin out bcz it was too late for anything with my last 2. I dont want to experience it like that again. 3rd times a charm I suppose.

Tell the nurse that you are seeing. You still have some time before you will deliver so tell the nurse the next time you see them and make sure you tell your doctor whenever you see them again. And whenever you go to the hospital tell your nurse when you are checking in.

Do you think I could have a birthing plan to give to the hospital? Everything had gone so quick with the other two. Im probably freaking out for no reason lol I just seriously dont want to endure that kind of pain again, ever.