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Quoting BG Secrets:" I'm still trying to figure out what FWB means  "

friends w/ benefits lol

Quoting Red Bottom:" would you recommend your daughter to get pregnant with a man she's not married to?"

I would recommend my daughter be a legal adult and have her life together before having a child. Married or not.

Quoting BG Secrets:" He lead me on. He clearly spoke of her in a bad manner, saying how he would never go back to her for ... [snip!] ... That's rare. If he was just using me as a pillow to lay on for now, he wouldn't have had me grow a bond with his child."

but he also said that he was in love w/ her...?

Quoting Jennybananna:" I wasnt married when I got pregnant. In fact I was in a FWB relationship. He told me we would never be ... [snip!] ... that man is my husband and we couldn't be happier. Just because you are married doesnt mean you will be together forever. "

I'll ask you what I asked the other person who said this.

Would you tell your daughter to have a baby with someone she's not married to?

Quoting Red Bottom:" It's apparent that to you, marriage is a piece of paper. However generally most of the population find it more sacred than that."

I see it as more than a piece of paper. A legal contract. But I see nothing sacred about it. Meh.  

Quoting Red Bottom:" I'll ask you what I asked the other person who said this. Would you tell your daughter to have a baby with someone she's not married to?"

Already answered that scroll up a few posts.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" would you recommend your daughter to get pregnant with a man she's not married to?"</blockquote>


I know this is t directed towards me but I want in in this question.

I hold marriage in high regard but I would most definitely tell my child (when grown) that if they want a baby not to let something like not being married stop them. I had my son out of marriage. That doesn't make a difference.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" but he also said that he was in love w/ her...?"

He said he loved her. They were together for 2 years.

When we were first with each other, I would sleep over all the time. No sex involved.
He would tell me when he had slept with someone else and when his mother met one of them by mistake, he told me how ashamed he felt because he doesn't like his mom to meet girls he brings to his house for just a one night stand.

Yes, I understand he was still in love with her but if I could fully explain it maybe it would be better to understand.

Quoting BG Secrets:" He lead me on. He clearly spoke of her in a bad manner, saying how he would never go back to her for ... [snip!] ... That's rare. If he was just using me as a pillow to lay on for now, he wouldn't have had me grow a bond with his child."

Relationships come and go....you're not going to wind up being with everyone you date forever. That doesn't mean that they intentionally lead you on. He probably liked you....and then like plenty of relationships....it ended.

Quoting BG Secrets:" He lead me on. He clearly spoke of her in a bad manner, saying how he would never go back to her for ... [snip!] ... That's rare. If he was just using me as a pillow to lay on for now, he wouldn't have had me grow a bond with his child."

Don't feel bad. It clearly sounds like he was leading you on. Men can be jerks when woman are vulnerable. If I were you, based off what you wrote about your relationship with him, I would have thought he really liked me too.

Quoting Jennybananna:" I would recommend my daughter be a legal adult and have her life together before having a child. Married or not."

   

Quoting BG Secrets:" He said he loved her. They were together for 2 years. When we were first with each other, I would sleep ... [snip!] ... Yes, I understand he was still in love with her but if I could fully explain it maybe it would be better to understand. "

You can explain all day long, but the past doesn't mean anything. Absolutely nothing.

The only thing that matter is you're pregnant with his baby and it's 50% yours and 50% his. Tell him he has a child on the way and move on with your life as a parent.

Quoting ma ♥:" Don't feel bad. It clearly sounds like he was leading you on. Men can be jerks when woman are vulnerable. ... [snip!] ... If I were you, based off what you wrote about your relationship with him, I would have thought he really liked me too."

I've been in that situation. It is very misleading, and they know it. It's not an easy thing to deal with, either. You feel like you should have known, it should have been obvious, and you should have seen it coming. In all reality, the guy should have been honest up front.

Idk it just seems weird that you said in your post he admitted he was in love w/ his ex. But then would ask you about having a kid. Like... wtf   He sounds a little more than weird. But regardless I would still tell him, for his child, because he/she has that right.

Quoting ma ♥:" Don't feel bad. It clearly sounds like he was leading you on. Men can be jerks when woman are vulnerable. ... [snip!] ... If I were you, based off what you wrote about your relationship with him, I would have thought he really liked me too."

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