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posted 3rd Jan
Quoting Red Bottom:" I think you obviously see now that having a baby with someone you're not married to is a pretty bad idea. ... [snip!] ... else, but he needs to know you're pregnant. As for you, you're about to be a mother which is pretty exciting. Enjoy it."

  i see where you are going with this, however my man is committed to me but not by legal marriage ..we have a son, we are happy, and i certainly don't think it was a bad choice or idea... Something just work out different for others i guess...
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I have 1 child & live in Sanford, Maine
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting Red Bottom:" I think you obviously see now that having a baby with someone you're not married to is a pretty bad idea. ... [snip!] ... else, but he needs to know you're pregnant. As for you, you're about to be a mother which is pretty exciting. Enjoy it."
Really marriage doesn't mean they are committed to you. Damn marriage is just a freaking piece of paper.
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I have 2 kids & live in Carlyle, Illinois
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting BG Secrets:" It's just the fact that with a previous relationship I was left for another person. I had a miscarriage. ... [snip!] ... myself in a couple of years. I have thought of suicide multiple times. I feel like a rebound. Not worth it. Nothing. It hurts."
You need to get help for your depression. Talk to your doctor about it.
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I have 2 kids & live in San Jose, California
posted 3rd Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" He told me to never contact him again after an argument we had. I do not plan on contacting him."</blockquote>


He needs to know. Just cause you're not together doesn't mean he doesn't deserve to know
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I'm due August 10th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Spokane, Washington
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting Jenna+1:" His name wouldn't happen to be Zach would it? Lol just making a joke because it sounds just like a guy ... [snip!] ... with someone who doesn't feel the same about you but did he tell you he loved his ex while being with you? Smurffy situation."
No his name isn't Zach  

He told me many things as to why he would never be with her again... they were lies.
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I live in Arizona
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting BG Secrets:" I wanted so badly nothing more than to be with a guy. He would always say "Would you want to have my ... [snip!] ... done for good. He's happy back with her and I am stuck here not knowing what to do anymore. I am so ashamed of myself."


hes a creep then. keep the baby and collect ur child support
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Springfield, Oregon
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting Jennybananna:" You need to get help for your depression. Talk to your doctor about it. "

I have a therapist. It doesn't help me at all.
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I live in Arizona
posted 3rd Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" He told me to never contact him again after an argument we had. I do not plan on contacting him."</blockquote>


Without a doubt he has a right to know he is having a baby. You need to attempt to contact him....not because you want him back or anything, because it is his right to be there (he may choose to be a deadbeat but he should at least get the option to be there).
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in North Las Vegas, Nevada
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" Really marriage doesn't mean they are committed to you. Damn marriage is just a freaking piece of paper. "
    
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I live in Arizona
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting Red Bottom:" I think you obviously see now that having a baby with someone you're not married to is a pretty bad idea. ... [snip!] ... else, but he needs to know you're pregnant. As for you, you're about to be a mother which is pretty exciting. Enjoy it."
I wasnt married when I got pregnant. In fact I was in a FWB relationship. He told me we would never be together. 4 years later that man is my husband and we couldn't be happier. Just because you are married doesnt mean you will be together forever.
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I have 2 kids & live in San Jose, California
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting BG Secrets:" It's just the fact that with a previous relationship I was left for another person. I had a miscarriage. ... [snip!] ... myself in a couple of years. I have thought of suicide multiple times. I feel like a rebound. Not worth it. Nothing. It hurts."

You need to maybe think about seeing a counselor, talking to someone about your depression and getting help. The way men treat you is not your fault at all, it's theirs. It's hard to tell which ones are genuine, and which ones are not. I've made the same mistakes, several times. It's a hard situation. It can be done though. You won't believe how much joy the baby will bring to you, and how much it can fill up the burden of not having a "man" in your life.
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I have 1 child & live in South Point, Ohio
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting *Noah&Presley'sMommy*:" hes a creep then. keep the baby and collect ur child support"

 
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting Laneys*Mama:" You need to maybe think about seeing a counselor, talking to someone about your depression and getting ... [snip!] ... believe how much joy the baby will bring to you, and how much it can fill up the burden of not having a "man" in your life."

Can I PM you?
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I live in Arizona
posted 3rd Jan
you were both there together..he knew what he was doing and so did you. you both knew what could happen without protection. I think he is a jerk for not asking if your are or not already even with or without an arguement..but sometimes don't take responsibility. however he still needs to know. you will feel better after you tell him and get it done and over with or you might be thinking about it the rest of your pregnancy and life with your son..do you want to continue having doubts? I don't believe thats healthy for anyone.

as for the marriage issue..yea its just a paper, but I'd rather have my husband's last name then mine..more for personal reasons then what mine actually is..
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I have 3 kids & live in Illinois
posted 3rd Jan
Quoting BG Secrets:" He told me to never contact him again after an argument we had. I do not plan on contacting him."

but it's his kid too.
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
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