What is family for

To help right?

to be there for you right? in your time of need?

did not know staying with family while pregnant or while a mother was so bad  

?

Not to sure what's happening here

Just because they are family doesn't mean they need to provide anything for you.

Ha, me personally I feel if you can get pregnant should be taking care of yourself ... smurf happends but just my opinion

I would not live with my family while continuing to have kids and bring home kids ...tacky

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" Just because they are family doesn't mean they need to provide anything for you."

Financially, you're correct. But emotionally, family should ALWAYS be there. Although I have come to find out it's best to be emotionally stable for myself & not have to rely on anybody else  

Quoting BubbleLush:" Ha, me personally I feel if you can get pregnant should be taking care of yourself ... smurf happends ... [snip!] ... smurf happends but just my opinion I would not live with my family while continuing to have kids and bring home kids ...tacky"

She's only 18! Give her some time.

Quoting ma ♥:" She's only 18! Give her some time."

She is referring to my sister she made this post in reference of my thread, she seemed insulted by it for some reason

<blockquote><b>Quoting ma ♥:</b>" Financially, you're correct. But emotionally, family should ALWAYS be there. Although I have come to find out it's best to be emotionally stable for myself & not have to rely on anybody else  "</blockquote>




Depending on the situation. There is a point in time you need to draw the line.

Pretty sure it's to be a pain in the ass and more trouble than they are worth. Oh and to not trust with your kid because they leave your infant in the tub alone.

<blockquote><b>Quoting BubbleLush:</b>" She is referring to my sister she made this post in reference of my thread, she seemed insulted by it for some reason "</blockquote>



Just read her post in your thread. Sounds like you have a genuine reason to be upset. And living off a little sister so you can buy a car instead of paying rent I'ls not a time of need IMO

Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BubbleLush:</b>" She is referring to my sister she made this ... [snip!] ... reason to be upset. And living off a little sister so you can buy a car instead of paying rent I'ls not a time of need IMO"

Exactly! she has more in savings than me and my husband which is a smurfing joke ....

some people are just takers

she has a kid and and is pregnant ffs give her a smurfin break already.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Waitinonyou:</b>" she has a kid and and is pregnant ffs give her a smurfin break already."</blockquote>




If she has more money than who she is mooching off of it's bullsmurf. She should be paying for her own.

Quoting Waitinonyou:" she has a kid and and is pregnant ffs give her a smurfin break already."

well if she wants to mooch off everyone maybe she needs to stop getting pregnant. It would be one thing if it wasn't every time she got pregnant. She doesn't need to give her a smurfing break, she has a family of her own she needs to take care of.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Waitinonyou:</b>" she has a kid and and is pregnant ffs give her a smurfin break already."</blockquote>




Um but her sister also said something along the lines of "I don't wanna buy diapers"
Babies need diapers so just from that statement alone she's not a responsible person and shouldn't be helped. She needs to grow up.