What would you do? (bad situation)

So i am deeply in love with my boyfriend... well ex boyfriend...   and he just called me and told me his dad told him that he had been doing research on me and that i was texting my exs friends.. or more specifically "Looks like she likes every guy" When i know for a fact what happened was my ex and i got into a drunken fight one night and one of his co workers was there and watched it all go down, i had him on my facebook and he messaged me and asked me if i was ok the next day and i told him to call me. i told him exactly how i felt and he supported me and said itll be ok blah blah blah completely friend like no more then proceded to ask me out via text, i told him no, that i am in love with my SO and i want to be with him and nobody else... he said K then i deleted his number and that whole text string out of my phone (STUPID STUPID STUPID!!!) Well my SO obviously found out about something so i finally told him about that and he called me a whore and carried on so i basically said i will call the phone company tomorrow and get you the messages.

the question is, should i stay with him if he wants me back? ( i love him so much) or should i just give him the messages to save my reputation and not take him back for not trusting me?

He sounds like a little pussy getting his dad to "research" you. Wtf.

How would his dad know that?

I mean, I can understand he's upset if he saw you telling another dude to call you... but he didn't see what the convo after that was about (since you deleted it). I would be upset that his daddy did "research" on me... but I would get the text msg print outs & give them to him. If I really loved him I wouldn't throw it away just because he's questioning the convo between you & another guy.. that's normal for him to wonder.

mad or not, if a guy called me a whore we'd be done, but that's me.

He did ask his dad to , his dad took it upon himself to do it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carissa's Mama  :</b>" He did ask his dad to , his dad took it upon himself to do it."</blockquote>



How did his dad see any of this though?

If everone took everything to hear this world would be a angry place.
I am sorry to say he probabley said it out of anger, If you put yourself inhis shoes you'd probabley say the same thing.
Although I feel bad that this has happened to you just let him have some time i'm sure he'll find the truth and appologise.
P.S you love him and love is about excepting and sometimes forgiving.

I think you need to kick his ass to the curb because he obviously doesn't respect you.
You need to focus on getting your smurf together for your daughter, not some dude.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carissa's Mama  :</b>" He did ask his dad to , his dad took it upon himself to do it."</blockquote> How did his dad see any of this though?"

To be honest i have no clue, thats honestly my last concern. I just dont want to lose SO for something when i did nothing wrong.

Quoting .Sam.:" I think you need to kick his ass to the curb because he obviously doesn't respect you. You need to focus on getting your smurf together for your daughter, not some dude."

He has been the one helping me get myself together for her, get my life started. its all happening because of him....

Quoting Carissa's Mama  :" To be honest i have no clue, thats honestly my last concern. I just dont want to lose SO for something when i did nothing wrong."

Like I said.. he was probably worried when he saw you told another dude to call you... You'd be worried too if he was telling another girl to call him. I don't think it's completely crazy for him to ask to see the messages between you two. If there's nothing to hide just show him & you two can move on from it all. Good luck!!

Wait, he called you a whore, then said he wanted you back?  

Or did I read that wrong? And I don't buy the whole, "My dad did research!" Him and his friend were probably talking smurf about you, and his friend chimed in that he talked to you via messages.

Quoting |♥| Jayme |♥|:" mad or not, if a guy called me a whore we'd be done, but that's me."

Agreed!

Quoting Carissa's Mama  :" He has been the one helping me get myself together for her, get my life started. its all happening because of him...."

You can do it by yourself.
In the end I bet you'd feel a lot better and be way more proud of yourself for doing it on your own.