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Ehh I can't control him, but it would probably pick at me a little bit. assuming I was in a healthy relationship we would talk about it and the lunch wouldn't bother me. It isn't like they are going by themselves.

None of that would really bug me. I might be a little upset if I wasn't invited to lunch, but if I would be bored or couldn't make it, I wouldn't care.

In my personal relationship, yes. The whole thing would irritate the hell out of me.

Quoting mom2twins&a.princess:" The dancing wouldn't bother, the lunch thing did he tell you or did you find out? If he was hidin it then I would say that's kinda shady!"

this.... I wouldn't like it if he felt the need to hide it. It would make it seem as if it is something more than friends.

i would be pissed because my bf has only ever danced with me ONCE. lol.

but, no seriously. pretending for the moment that he actually does dance.... i don't think it would bother me if the dancing wasn't sexual bumping and grinding type stuff.

but, this "thing" a few months ago....? were you guys together at that time? and what was it exactly?... actions or not? i think if there was a real affair type thing going on then and we had been together at the same time, then yes. it would bother me, no matter what type of dancing.

sorry my answer is confusing...

Dosnt bother me...

I'm with him now... if I can't trust him to act right with some1 he had a past with, we have bigger problems than him doing the twist, in public unless he's dancing with a baby lol

That type of dancing? I would not be upset about it.

I can't tell my husband NOT to do something, because I wouldn't want him to tell me that I can't do something when I want too. I trust my husband completely though. If you have a problem with this situation, talk with him. Let him know you feel.

No to all of it.

I wouldn't be pissed at the dancing the way you described it. I would be pissed if she was grinding on his junk. But, then again if he had a thing for her in the past then, I dunno, it would probably make me a bit uncomfortable. The lunch thing I wouldn't be pissed about unless it was just him and the girl, but since there's gonna be other people I don't see much harm in that.

Both SO and I are bartenders, well I used to be anyway, so we've both kinda got used to other people hitting on us ya know? If we were both the jealous type then our relationship probably wouldn't work out. At the end of the night, I know he's coming home to me, and he knows I'm coming home to him.

The only thing that would bother me would be the lunch thing, because I get left here with these kids all the time. I get bored and lonely. Otherwise, I don't see anything wrong with it.

Quoting loser mom:" the dancing, no the summer crush three years back, no the lunch? are you invited, too? "

well, i was the one dancing... and I did invite DH, but he said he doesn't want to see the guy. I didn't think anything of it because I don't look at him like that. I'm in love with my little family, so I was just having fun. It is going to be me, my brother, and my best friend at lunch, IF I even go because I don't want to disrespect my DH by going. He said I could go, but I can tell he doesn't want me to.

Quoting MommaNoodle:" i would be pissed because my bf has only ever danced with me ONCE. lol. but, no seriously. pretending ... [snip!] ... been together at the same time, then yes. it would bother me, no matter what type of dancing. sorry my answer is confusing..."

no, we weren't together at the time, it was all before him.

Quoting melindapple:" well, i was the one dancing... and I did invite DH, but he said he doesn't want to see the guy. I didn't ... [snip!] ... IF I even go because I don't want to disrespect my DH by going. He said I could go, but I can tell he doesn't want me to."

Well there is a twist I didnt see coming lol

Quoting mom2twins&a.princess:" The dancing wouldn't bother, the lunch thing did he tell you or did you find out? If he was hidin it then I would say that's kinda shady!"

I told him. My brother invited me to lunch, at the end of the night he said ".... is going too." And my DH was there when I was dancing too. I literally went up and was dancing by myself because DH didn't want to.

<blockquote><b>Quoting melindapple:</b>" well, i was the one dancing... and I did invite DH, but he said he doesn't want to see the guy. I didn't ... [snip!] ... IF I even go because I don't want to disrespect my DH by going. He said I could go, but I can tell he doesn't want me to."</blockquote>




Ohhhh I see what u did   if it made my husband uncomfortable I wouldn't go,
I now work with my ex, hes a dj at the club I bartend at, when I told my husband about the job he was all for it, he went with me top check it our and now him and my ex are all chummy, its very weird they affectionatley call each other *eskimo brothers* I hate them