need advice

Hi I'm 23 and I just found out that my gf is cheating on me or is planing on it. I've been with here for awhile now and things were going great till about a month and a half ago. I love her and i don't want to lose her any thoughts on what i should do

well how do you know this? i mean if you love her and dont want to lose her then confront her and move on and leave it up to her about what happens next

Talk to her about it and see what she says about it.

Leave her. No one deserves to be cheated on.

I saw her facebook thats how i found out

How do you know? just ask her about it and then both of you can diced together if you want to save the relationship or go your separate ways.

Quoting ×ø×K·ßear×ø×:" well how do you know this? i mean if you love her and dont want to lose her then confront her and move on and leave it up to her about what happens next"

Mind reader.  

OP, talk to her about it. You guys both have to be willing to work at it though. Relationships aren't meant to be one sided.

Quoting :" I saw her facebook thats how i found out"

why would you want a girl that cheated on you or is planning on doing it?

Quoting bbbt:" Leave her. No one deserves to be cheated on. "

    

She the type who will turn the actual problem into the fact i saw her facebook

Quoting :" She the type who will turn the actual problem into the fact i saw her facebook"

then thats when you leave her

Quoting :" She the type who will turn the actual problem into the fact i saw her facebook"

She sounds manipulative.

Leave her. You don't deserve that.

Quoting bbbt:" She sounds manipulative. "

     

If she is going to turn it around to make you look like the bad guy when she has dishonest intentions, then why stay ?  

We have known eachothere since we were teens and we have been through alot