Quoting ♥ laura-marie + 1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommyToWesley:</b>" I do completely understand what you mean ... [snip!] ... picture what they really did which makes it so much harder. Spmetimes it feels good just to get this off my chest lol"
Yes, with time it does get easier. But like I said, it took me a long time to finally accept it. I never made it awkward to hang out with them or anything, but I would always be pissed at him after (he has a pretty flirtatious personality as well). He seriously doesn't understand what flirting is, or that what he does could be considered as coming on to someone lol. It's all innocent in his eyes, though, and that's all that really matters. Once I finally accepted that, I was fine.
Now, we did move out of town (we all lived in a college town while we went to college) and get our own place and kind of fell out of touch with all of them, but I was over it by then anyway.
Although, we did hang out with one of his ex's (the other one who told me she still loved him) while I was pregnant (not showing too much yet), and when I told her (well, when I told the whole group- we called a bunch of our friends together to share the good news) she cried about it
Needless to say, we haven't talked to her since.
He hasn't given me a reason to doubt him in years though, so that definitely helped the situation.