Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Summerfrost:</b>" I really think you'll be fine. Your body ... [snip!] ... hr. it's all just so overwhelming. So I'm afraid im gona fail. I feel like Ive failed this preg and now I'm gonna fail my dd."
You didn't fail at all. In fact right now, you're fighting hard to keep her safe. You've given up pretty much everything to stay in the hospital. Right now you are doing more for your baby than you would have had to do if you had to go through a couple of hours of pain without medication.
It took me a lot of pregnancies to come to peace with it all and I wouldn't say that I am thrilled that my pregnancies are disasters. I can also see certain areas in my life where I've over-compensated a little bit with the boys. After a few months though, outside of getting great war stories, the trauma of pregnancy fades. Your daughter won't remember your pregnancy at all. All she'll know is that she had a mom who fought really hard to get her here alive and who loves her.