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All the time. I assume dead or diseased.

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" Of where you'd be today if you never had a family? I do, all the time and it makes me sick. Before I ... [snip!] ... see the brighter side of life! Now today I could care less about having fun, DS is my fun, he's my life. They saved me. ♥"

i would be.... having fun lol. traveling and probably would have a degree.

All the time. I'm sure I would be a broke ass homeless alcoholic and/or druggy. My oldest son saved me from myself.

Sounds cliche but my son saved my life.

I am so thankful for DD she completely inspired me. I had her at 17 and had NO clue what do do with my life. If I didn't have her I would probably be partying with friends, doing all sorts of drugs, being reckless, contracting STD's. I watch what some of my friends are doing today and I am glad I have DD, in the end she kept me out of trouble.

I would probably have a job, money, my own place, and a ton of friends. Or I would just be a coke whore. Who knows.

am i the only one who wasnt doing bad stuff before i had my son lol

I would probably get drunk every night and hook up with random guys.

Wow. Great question. I have no idea......My relationship with BD was horrible. Don't know if I would've stayed. I would probably have gone back to stripping full time amd having a lot more money and no debt like now.

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" am i the only one who wasnt doing bad stuff before i had my son lol"

I was no worse than I am now. In fact I did a ton of horrible smurf AFTER my first son was born. PPD and all.

That sounds just like me. Minus SO saving me part. We were both heavy into drinking and partying. Getting pregnant with our son definitely changed our life for the better. But I do think about what our life would be like if we never had kids when I talk to my old "friends". I do miss being able to do whatever the smurf I want but I am definitely in a much better place then I would have been. I love my life and my boys more than anything.

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" am i the only one who wasnt doing bad stuff before i had my son lol"

I wasn't either  . I owned my house with my husband (fiance at the time), working full time, had friends, family close by, teams that I played on.

If I didn't have children right now, I would be trying (and probably getting help), we started trying almost 5 years ago.

Quoting Supafly★:" I was no worse than I am now. In fact I did a ton of horrible smurf AFTER my first son was born. PPD and all. "

i think before i had my son i was on a fast track to "the life"... now that he is older i just have a more family oriented view of things. i always said i wanted to live life traveling...now i just want to get married lol

Quoting Roe23:" I wasn't either  . I owned my house with my husband (fiance at the time), working full time, had friends, ... [snip!] ... on. If I didn't have children right now, I would be trying (and probably getting help), we started trying almost 5 years ago."

well im glad u had it together girl!! and glad u ddidnt have to get help for ur babies lol