re: no one understands me

Quoting pilot Jess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting :</b>" I dont have kids. i think thats why they are mean to ... [snip!] ... to like you, but if you are happy with yourself and are kind and genuine, people who are worth your time will be your friends."

  

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Yeah I could see how that works. Do they try talking to you or anything? Have you tried finding new friends at all? "

my sister helped me make two friends but they seem like they are always busy. i want a best friend i can confide in all the time, but my sister said that takes time

<blockquote><b>Quoting :</b>" I dont have kids. i think thats why they are mean to me on here. but i have niece named chloe and i like ... [snip!] ... that im stalking them by getting their phone number and looking up their facebooks but some people on here told me to do that."</blockquote>

Lots of people on here don't have kids. I think you may be misinterpreting what people say on the net. Are you on any meds for compulsion?

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Yeah I could see how that works. Do they try talking to you or anything? Have you tried finding new friends at all? "

no i want them to tell me they dont want to be my friends. but they dont. they give me mixed signals so im confused. i think they are nice but everyone tells me that they dont want to hurt my feelings.

Quoting :" my sister helped me make two friends but they seem like they are always busy. i want a best friend i can confide in all the time, but my sister said that takes time "

It does take time! And I think the more you "push" it the harder it becomes. Just let it happen if you can. Once trust and all that starts to kick in, then the friendship will become stronger.

Quoting :" no i want them to tell me they dont want to be my friends. but they dont. they give me mixed signals ... [snip!] ... they give me mixed signals so im confused. i think they are nice but everyone tells me that they dont want to hurt my feelings."

Just ask them! And if they say no then thank them for being honest and then try to move on. You definitely don't want to be friends with someone who is just trying to be nice and afraid to hurt your feelings because then it will never be a true friendship.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting :</b>" I dont have kids. i think thats why they are mean to ... [snip!] ... on here don't have kids. I think you may be misinterpreting what people say on the net. Are you on any meds for compulsion?"

no i used to be on a lot of meds. now im not. im just on anti anxiety . klonipon and buspar

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Just ask them! And if they say no then thank them for being honest and then try to move on. You definitely ... [snip!] ... with someone who is just trying to be nice and afraid to hurt your feelings because then it will never be a true friendship."

i cant find them now. i cant find reena anywhere. not on facebook. i have no way to talk to her.

Quoting :" i cant find them now. i cant find reena anywhere. not on facebook. i have no way to talk to her."

Then you should just leave it alone! I think there are also sites online that you can try to look up and meet friends. Have you ever thought about having a penpal?