Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" why is i fair to her that her only day of as well and she doesnt get to spend it with her child.it is ... [snip!] ... them every other weekend or if i wanna do something with them one weekend he will come get them the next weekend vice versa"
Because lets say she works 8 hour days, 5 days a week. Let's say she sleeps the average 8 hours at night. That means that she still spends 8 hours every day with her daughter even on days she's working. How is it fair for her to get 8 hours with her plus both days off and the dad to only get 1 day TOTAL??