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I know how you feel. I want to TTC right now but we aren't financially stable and DD is SUCH a handful.

Of all the girls I've seen on here who said they wanted a baby but there SO didn't...
And then some how they magically end up pregnant..
Their SO normally cheats on them, treats them like smurf, isn't interested in the kid and then they eventually break up.


Give your SO time to adjust and enjoy being a dad, get a job .. save some money and THEN talk about having another baby that you both want.

<blockquote><b>Quoting norah's.momma✿:</b>" I know how you feel. I want to TTC right now but we aren't financially stable and DD is SUCH a handful."</blockquote>




Yeah.
My DD is wild, she's a 24/7 job.
If I went to college I wouldn't have to Work because I have 2 scholarships and I would have money left over each semester.
some days are worse than others, I just love experiencing pregnancy and giving birth.. It's awesome! lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monkey Nuts:</b>" Of all the girls I've seen on here who said they wanted a baby but there SO didn't... And then some how ... [snip!] ... time to adjust and enjoy being a dad, get a job .. save some money and THEN talk about having another baby that you both want."</blockquote>




good point.
I don't want to ruin my relationship.
SO says he will never love another baby like DD I think he's scared he won't have a Bond with another baby.

Quoting Ole' No Name:" <blockquote><b>Quoting norah's.momma✿:</b>" I know how you feel. I want to TTC ... [snip!] ... over each semester. some days are worse than others, I just love experiencing pregnancy and giving birth.. It's awesome! lol"

Yeah, I LOVED being pregnant and labor/giving birth.

And yeah my DD is probably as much work as 2 kids already lol

this LO I'm pregnant with now was so unplanned but we did talk about having another baby..DH at first said he was fine with just one kid and then said he wanted 3 and now after we have this baby he's getting a vasectomy...I'm kinda happy she wasn't planned, if we were to have waited to actually TTC we'd either never have another baby because I wanted DS to be young enough for him to enjoy his siblings not to hate them for stealing all the attention(they'll be 3 years apart so it's a nice age gap)..or we'd just never see ourselves as "financially stable"...

I want to ttc too! But my DD is only 9 months. So I'd like for her to at least be a year and a half before I'm pregnant again. I'm just trying to enjoy every second with her. My dh is really weird about the whole thing. He talks baby names all the time but then claims not to want anymore. We could afford at least one more so I'm not sure what the deal is for us. I would wait to ttc until I had a job if you think that would make your SO more comfortable with the idea.

Awe. Maybe your SO will change his mind. You are still pretty young so you have time.