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Thank you for reading and your replies. Also, thank you for not quoting.

I have been married six months and every day.i wish I had called off the wedding. Now I'm legally stuck amd miserable. Kick his ass to the curb. Being single is scary but it's worse to be miserably married

All I can say us it's cheaper and less heartache to get out before the wedding. If you are unsure I think that's your answer. There are plenty of other guys who do not treat their women like smurf and talk down to them. I'm sorry you're going through this :-/

No I haven't been in your same position. But you really need to talk to him it would be selfish to marry him if you are not in love with him. I think you love him but not in I wanna be with you kinda way. I wish you the best of luck with your decision.

I was engaged to my son's father, and it was the best thing I ever did not marrying him. I was extremely unhappy in our relationship.
If you aren't happy, don't do it.

It doesn't sound to me like your happy. Don't sell yourself short and settle so your not alone. If he's putting you down now and your sex life is already failing. If you marry and have kids at some point, his behavior won't change nor will your feelings. My honest advise... let it go and move on it's better to be alone and unhappy for a bit then married and miserable .

Quoting Miss Brittany:" I was engaged to my son's father, and it was the best thing I ever did not marrying him. I was extremely unhappy in our relationship. If you aren't happy, don't do it."

How did you make up your mind about not marrying him?

Don't go through with it. If you aren't sure then it is not fair to you or him.
It's normal to have cold feet and question it a little. But if that feeling doesn't go away then its not just cold feet.

If you aren't happy now being married won't make it better. Call it off.

I was engaged to my oldest sons dad and called it off. I'm happy I did. I wasn't happy and everything about him pissed me off after awhile. Best thing I ever did. I took a year off of being in any relationship and enjoyed being single. It was a great year! I really learned myself.

I have been in your position but I was younger (1  I dated the guy for 2 years, we were engaged for almost a year and he didn't treat me very well at all. When I got my fist job I actually got around other people and seen I could do better and I eventually broke it off. It was hard to do and he was really upset but when I was sadder to give the ring back than I was not marrying him I knew I'd done the right thing. You will find someone better (like I did) and be glad you didn't go that route I am sure.

Quoting BG Secrets:" How did you make up your mind about not marrying him?"

I don't really know. It just came out one day. I was feeding my son dinner and it just popped out of my mouth. I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. I don't know what made me say it.

OP he treats you like smurf and you don't deserve that, I can promise you that if you don't call off the wedding things will just get worse. It's a lot easier to call off a wedding, and divorce is not something you want to deal with. Take some time and make his ass leave, being single can be scary but it can also give you a chance to find yourself.