Quoting *mommy to 3*:" I would suck it up and apologize since ya'll were close before this. And if you really think you deserve ... [snip!] ... and move forward". That leaves the door open for her to agree and apologize, without placing any blame entirely on you or her."I like that idea of leaving the door open. I just don't want to have to do all of the work. I know it will be nothing like it was before. But I also don't want to do all of the work. I just hate it bothering the man I love so much. I don't think face to face is a very good idea since if SO goes with me which he would then I can't just leave if words began to get ugly again. Is over the computer a stupid idea? Like shooting her a message saying whatever I end up writing since that way if anything goes wrong I don't have to be right there in person and pop off since lately I am just aggravated with everyone lol.?
Quoting *mommy to 3*:" i think if you feel more comfortable over the computer then it would be okay. That way you can say everything ... [snip!] ... this has put on your SO that she will likely want to do whats best for everyone involved and leave the past in the past also."
Quoting Due *March 8th* w/ a boy!:" Yeah that is true, I would have proof that I tried if things went down hill. And regardless of whether ... [snip!] ... I will just get pissed off lol. I am going to try it I just need to unblock her first and have at it. Thanks for the advice."
Quoting *mommy to 3*:" off topic....but we are due the same day!!! Mines a girl though....I already have 2 boys. one is 6 the other is 12 mos."
Quoting Due *March 8th* w/ a boy!:" Hahah that is pretty awesome! I wanted a girl towards the end, but I am very happy with my little ... [snip!] ... have to watch all the princess movies lol! And aww well congrats for your little girl have you chosen your name for her yet?"
Quoting *mommy to 3*:" NO NAME YET! and it kind of feels like we will never come to an agreement on one. I wanted something ... [snip!] ... one. I wanted something girly and my DH just wants to throw scrabble letters in a bag and see what he pulls out it seems like."
Quoting Taryn's Mommy ♥:" My "SIL" (I'm not with LO's dad anymore but I still consider his SIL mine), we have had MANY falling ... [snip!] ... to apologize, be the bigger person, and make things right. Hopefully she'll take it from you and do the same. Good luck!! "