Quoting Red Bottom:" You two are supposed to be a team and I would assume, share everything. If you share money anyways, why ... [snip!] ... the two of you? I would be curious what has given off the vibe to his mother that you two keep things from one another. "
I know right? It makes no sense.
We moved in together officially
6 months ago. MIL got her credit card bill in the mail and SO had racked up $2000 in debt, mostly on fast food and his computer. He also has invested money he can't access yet. So MIL tells me that it would be in my best interest to get rid of all his credit cards and take control of our assets and she would reinvest the money when it comes out.
So I did.
All of his money goes into my account and I divvy it out. He's laid off now but when he wasn't I left him is overtime money and took the rest for bills. He never once complained about that, and it was MIL's idea - I also cut up his credit cards. SO also let me quit my job, so it's not like I was pocketing cash and using all his.
So then to turn around and give him money, and tell him not to tell me? I don't understand.