Quoting Twin's Mommy:" Off to read your last posts. I guess men are better if they live at home with their moms in their basements. ... [snip!] ... Seems like she'd want him out on his own, taking care of himself and a family... Or maybe I'm just wrong thinking that way. lol"
I knew we were thinking about it wrong all this time
I'm starting to wonder if she's pissed he's with me because one day he was her baby and the next he was taking care of a family (DD isn't his). But we took our time with our relationship and DD started calling him dad on her own, which he wanted. I also don't think she likes that he let me quit my job... but previous to officially moving in together I let him live with me and he only pitched in on groceries, and I paid everything else. Give and take, you know? That money that's invested SO wants to buy a house with, but MIL is concerned he's going to spend it on something for "us." Dafuq right?