Quoting Destinite:" Gotcha. I hope you didn't take offense. "
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" She's saying after the court date we can't even get back together. I'm not going to change it to that, I want to get it dropped completely. "Regardless you need to follow anything that is court ordered. They are trying to protect you and your daughter. Have you not ever seen Teen Mom where Catelyn's mom and butch end up in jail for violating their DO NOT CONTACT order. It is very serious and he can get more time if you do not follow it, and you ending up in jail can equal your child getting taken away because you are breakin the law and having her break the law at the same time.
Quoting Jenna+1:" Whenever the order is either completed and they feel the terms and consequences have been met or its ... [snip!] ... shouldn't. I don't think just because you guys have made mistakes means you can't start over and donut better. Good luck OP."
Quoting [JadeLee]:" Regardless you need to follow anything that is court ordered. They are trying to protect you and your ... [snip!] ... in jail can equal your child getting taken away because you are breakin the law and having her break the law at the same time."
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Thank you. We're not violating anything, because I don't want him to get in more trouble. The way the lady made it sound on the phone is at any time if we decide to be together she'll take her away. "
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" No not at all. It was just a rough night, I'd been off my meds, and work was stressful. "
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Neither one of us are speaking to the other. "Well you obviously want to. But they can keep no contact orders in place for years, as long as it is in place (look for an expiration date following the hearing) they can have just cause to take your child out of the harmful situation (regardless of weather she was there or not when it happened, they have to assume it could happen when she is there too. ) Like the above poster said CPS can get involved, and they will make it harder but eventually when there is no order then you can. She can't keep you from him for life.
Quoting InkDMomma:" No it's only when you have a court order in place. You must have just misunderstood or she just might ... [snip!] ... on thing after everything has been dropped, just be careful the next time because that social worker might be out for your ass."
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" I was really drunk, and so was he, we got into a fight, he fell out of the bed and thought I pushed ... [snip!] ... and thought I pushed him, and was screaming at me. Me being off my meds, and way too drunk, got scared and called the cops. "
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Gotcha. Well IMO, if you truly knew he wouldn't of hurt you then you wouldn't have called the cops. ... [snip!] ... nothing like this happens again. For youselves and your child, teach her that is not how relationships should be. Good luck!"
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" After being off my meds for a week (which caused bigger issues than all this) and being so drunk I could ... [snip!] ... I called the cops. I was drunk and scared and obviously not thinking clearly. Otherwise I wouldn't have called. Thank you. "
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Sorry, your'e story just sounds like my old relationship...very unhealthy. Luckily, we didn't have any ... [snip!] ... So maybe you should reevaluate your relationship. And good thing she wasn't there, what would you have done if she WAS there?"