re: Can they do this?

Quoting Destinite:" No offense, but if you can't keep her out of a dangerous situation, then it is their obligation to do so. Is this a one-time thing or is this a repeat offense? I promise I'm not being bitchy."

It isn't a dangerous situation. It happened once before, he drank too much that night, and I had drank too much, and smurf got heated.

It wouldn't be violating any orders. She's stating that EVER if we get back together she'd find a way. Also, there's nothing in the order stating he can't see her, she's been spending time with him since the incident

Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" It wouldn't be violating any orders. She's stating that EVER if we get back together she'd find a way. ... [snip!] ... find a way. Also, there's nothing in the order stating he can't see her, she's been spending time with him since the incident"

they see that you two TOGETHER cause a dangerous situation and they want it avoided.

Well, there is evidence of a violent relationship, which is dangerous for the child. Why they an't prove it happens a lot, they always can't prove that it doesn't happen a lot KWIM? So, for safety's sake, CPS would intervene if you violated the court order. It's for yours and your daughters safety.

Quoting InkDMomma:" they see that you two TOGETHER cause a dangerous situation and they want it avoided."

Yet somehow we've managed to be together for years without issues. It's not dangerous, for anyone involved

Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Yet somehow we've managed to be together for years without issues. It's not dangerous, for anyone involved"

why is that THAT difficult for you to get?
He was arrested and they saw what the situation was and they want to try and avoid it ever happening again, they don't give 2 smurfs about your past they care about what just happened.

<blockquote><b>Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:</b>" Yet somehow we've managed to be together for years without issues. It's not dangerous, for anyone involved"</blockquote>




It obviously can be if it's turned violent more than once.

Quoting Dōngtiān:" If they get it approved by the judge, they can."

Sorry to be off subject but holy hell your avi is freaking hilarious! I just busted out laughing at work...haha  

OP- You should realize that your relationship is unhealthy and you should be more considerate of what you allow around your daughter. I'm sure you love him and all but I don't think you want this life for her. Yes they can and will take her if you don't put her needs before your own.

Absolutely!
If they feel your child hears or sees the other parent abuse you, your worker may open a case to protect your child. In their eyes, you are "neglecting" your child by letting your child see and hear the abuse.
They can file a "Care and Protection" case in court and ask for custody of your child if your worker thinks that getting back together put your child in danger. It will be up to the judge to decide, but it is hard to keep custody when the social worker is against it.

Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Yet somehow we've managed to be together for years without issues. It's not dangerous, for anyone involved"

If it wasn't dangerous, then were the cops called?? What exactly happened...

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" If it wasn't dangerous, then were the cops called?? What exactly happened..."

Sorry, "WHY were the cops called"?

Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" It isn't a dangerous situation. It happened once before, he drank too much that night, and I had drank too much, and smurf got heated. "

Gotcha. I hope you didn't take offense.

Quoting InkDMomma:" why is that THAT difficult for you to get? He was arrested and they saw what the situation was and they ... [snip!] ... they want to try and avoid it ever happening again, they don't give 2 smurfs about your past they care about what just happened."

They saw I was drunk and upset and he was sitting outside. I didn't give a statement or anything.

Quoting Mrs Mia Wallace:" Absolutely! If they feel your child hears or sees the other parent abuse you, your worker may open a ... [snip!] ... child in danger. It will be up to the judge to decide, but it is hard to keep custody when the social worker is against it."

She didn't see or hear anything, she wasn't even here.

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" If it wasn't dangerous, then were the cops called?? What exactly happened..."

I was really drunk, and so was he, we got into a fight, he fell out of the bed and thought I pushed him, and was screaming at me. Me being off my meds, and way too drunk, got scared and called the cops.