for moms with prolapse..

After my second child, I experienced uterine prolapse, cystocele and rectocele. I had to wear a pessary for a few months until my muscles regained strength. I became pregnant again seven months post partum and this will be our last baby.

I'm wondering... How soon after the birth should I start wearing the pessary again, and, for those of you who had surgical repair, how long after did you have it done? And of course, how was it?

Surgery freaks me out.