re: stay at home moms

posted 2nd Jan
Quoting the grace life:" That is what I say. Plus, if she doesn't earn her checkmarks on her chart, she can't play her leap pad or watch a cartoon....pretty much solves that problem.  "


LOL. I have tried the check mark system. It doesn't work on Alyssa. Sometimes I have to get mean and threaten to throw toys away. This child is stubborn. And what's worse is I don't know is she gets it from me, or her dad.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Mexico
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting Drippy Hairymuff:" LOL. I have tried the check mark system. It doesn't work on Alyssa. Sometimes I have to get mean and ... [snip!] ... and threaten to throw toys away. This child is stubborn. And what's worse is I don't know is she gets it from me, or her dad. "

lol. We take toys away if they don't clean them up before bed. I don't play that game.


Geesh, I sound so mean.  
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Indiana
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posted 2nd Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Big'n:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Big'n:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Get a stick and bring em out back. Lol"</blockquote> I'll have to make them pick their own switch"</blockquote>




That's how you do it.
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posted 2nd Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting the grace life:</b>" I beat them with the Bible until they listen.   I thought you knew how we Christians worked? "</blockquote>




Homg stahp!  
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Plainfield, New Hampshire
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting the grace life:" lol. We take toys away if they don't clean them up before bed. I don't play that game. Geesh, I sound so mean.  "




You're lucky then.

I thought something was up with Alyssa last night when I told her to go clean her room, and she walked into her room with no argument.

She came out 5 minutes later and closed the door on her way out.

I asked her if her room was clean, and she responded with yes.

So I tell her to open the door. (I was in the kitchen doing dishes, and you can see in her room from there).

She opens the door, and her floor was a mess.

Now she is mad because I won't let her play with her Mega blocks in the living room anymore, and her room is "Too messy to play blocks in."

You'd think she would get the concept of cleaning her room.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Mexico
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting Drippy Hairymuff:" You're lucky then. I thought something was up with Alyssa last night when I told her to go clean ... [snip!] ... room anymore, and her room is "Too messy to play blocks in." You'd think she would get the concept of cleaning her room. "

When K doesn't want to clean her room she goes in there and just falls asleep. It is infuriating.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Indiana
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting the grace life:" When K doesn't want to clean her room she goes in there and just falls asleep. It is infuriating. "


LOL. Alyssa is going through the whole "Being scared" phase, and does what she can to camp out on the couch.

Yesterday morning, I woke up to make DH breakfast, and she was asleep in our doorway.

It's like OMG child. "GO. TO. YOUR. BED. Trust me. With all the smurf under your bed it isn't possible for a monster to fit under there.  
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Mexico
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting the grace life:" I beat them with the Bible until they listen.   I thought you knew how we Christians worked? "
I guess I forgot about the flagellation via bible for discipline
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I have 2 kids & live in Ireland
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting Drippy Hairymuff:" LOL. Alyssa is going through the whole "Being scared" phase, and does what she can to camp out on the ... [snip!] ... child. "GO. TO. YOUR. BED. Trust me. With all the smurf under your bed it isn't possible for a monster to fit under there.  "

Ours crawl in our bed or on the couch from time to time. That doesn't bug us, I think we both enjoy those occasional cuddles.  
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Indiana
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting .Colleen.:" I guess I forgot about the flagellation via bible for discipline"
 
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Indiana
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting the grace life:" Ours crawl in our bed or on the couch from time to time. That doesn't bug us, I think we both enjoy those occasional cuddles.  "

Of definitely. We just try not to allow Alyssa to crawl in bed with us when DH has to work the next morning. (He gets up about 4:45am).

He thinks the kids shouldn't be allowed in our room period. He was raised that way though. I allow her to cuddle with us every now and then.

I have been locking my door a lot more lately. I am trying to make my daughter understand the concept of knocking.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Mexico
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting Drippy Hairymuff:" Of definitely. We just try not to allow Alyssa to crawl in bed with us when DH has to work the next ... [snip!] ... and then. I have been locking my door a lot more lately. I am trying to make my daughter understand the concept of knocking. "

Our kids aren't allowed in our room if we aren't there, but otherwise we don't care.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Indiana
posted 2nd Jan
Quoting the grace life:" Our kids aren't allowed in our room if we aren't there, but otherwise we don't care. "



Every now and then I will let Alyssa lay in our bed and watch cartoons. For the most part, she knows not to get into anything.

I just don't like the thought of her walking in on us when we are showering together. She is at that age where Aaron and I feel it is inappropriate for her to see her daddy naked.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Mexico
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posted 2nd Jan
A girl I used to talk to wanted to stay home but her husband made her work so he wouldn't have to work. She was very depressed. I wanted to be her friend but she had too many problems and wasn't friendly and ignored me sometimes.
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posted 2nd Jan
I hated being a stay at home mom. I'm technically now a student mom but I'm also unemployed so I still stay home with kids when I haven't shoved them into daycare.
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