So I made 40wks yesterday on "EDD" but she's cozier than ever and still here. I'm not planning to induce medically so that's out of the question. Everyone feels she might come this weekend, I'm uncomfortable but I don't mind so much. My only problem is my Fiance has been looking at me like a nice piece of steak for the past week and he's using "semen" as an excuse to soften my cervix... my crotch feels like it's going to split and fall. It's not only him I got my whole family screaming in my ear all the ways to induce and kick start labor but, I'm really going with the flow. Should I just give in to him?
<blockquote><b>Quoting grizzy:</b>" So I made 40wks yesterday on "EDD" but she's cozier than ever and still here. I'm not planning to induce ... [snip!] ... in my ear all the ways to induce and kick start labor but, I'm really going with the flow. Should I just give in to him?"</blockquote>
If it hurts, then no! Just stick to other means to keep him happy ;)
You ladies are right I guess I can just please him another way but I'm gonna try sex tonight because if it does work with PP soon he won't get it for a while lol I should just turkey baste his semen up there and skip everything else.
<blockquote><b>Quoting grizzy:</b>" I'm thinking I can just try tonight and if it hurts I'll stop.. he's getting so handsy :/"</blockquote>
Set some boundaries before you two are even going to go into the act. Like early on in the day when you're not sexual yet. Tell him what makes you uncomfortable and how u want to be treated due to your size and discomfort. Work out a stop word or a this is uncomfortable word instead of laying there complaining and ruining it haha. That way u can switch positions or angles or skmething.
Well, he's home and I'm thinking of just going with it because I do want baby girl out... my fiance has a cranky limit like once it hits 2 weeks he's cranky from no sex. He hasn't reached that yet because we did it a week ago and now for the baby so he'll be nice for a while but I'm not excited for PP with him lol I'm big and doesn't matter to him I don't understand I'm tired of looking at myself..