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You definitely need a break hun...do you and your SO live together?

Lock the doors and leave a note for him saying "this is me dealing with it" and let him deal with where he'll sleep tonight...



but if DH pulled a stunt like that I'd have his balls....if I call him while he's out (which is also a rare occasion) and say "hey, your son is about to make me flip" he'll come right home.

Quoting Mrs.O!:" Lock the doors and leave a note for him saying "this is me dealing with it" and let him deal with where ... [snip!] ... call him while he's out (which is also a rare occasion) and say "hey, your son is about to make me flip" he'll come right home."

I cant even fathom living with my SO/DH and them not coming home at all, just because they are hanging out. Nah, smurf that.

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" You definitely need a break hun...do you and your SO live together?"

Yeap and he thinks that because he works he shouldnt have to help out with the baby at all

Quoting Mrs.O!:" Lock the doors and leave a note for him saying "this is me dealing with it" and let him deal with where ... [snip!] ... call him while he's out (which is also a rare occasion) and say "hey, your son is about to make me flip" he'll come right home."

Ugh I would so do that, but he has taken the car with our only set of house keys attached, because LO lost our other set and we havent gotten around to getting more cut. So I cant even lock the doors.

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" I cant even fathom living with my SO/DH and them not coming home at all, just because they are hanging out. Nah, smurf that."

yeah, I understand everyone needs their grown up time and go out and hang out some times but honestly?..this guy sounds like a total douche.

Quoting Elliot Reid:" Yeap and he thinks that because he works he shouldnt have to help out with the baby at all"

Put your foot down...the ball is in your court. Make some demands, and if he doesnt comply, Id do as another member suggested and get the locks changed on his ass. Married men/men with families dont get to not come home at night.

Quoting Mrs.O!:" Lock the doors and leave a note for him saying "this is me dealing with it" and let him deal with where ... [snip!] ... call him while he's out (which is also a rare occasion) and say "hey, your son is about to make me flip" he'll come right home."

And I did say im about to smurfing lose it here, can you please come home and help me, I could smurfing scream right now

Quoting Mrs.O!:" yeah, I understand everyone needs their grown up time and go out and hang out some times but honestly?..this guy sounds like a total douche."

By al means go out and have a couple brews with the guys or whatever it is you do for fun....but if the sun beats your ass home you might as well move your smurf to where ever the hell you were at.

Quoting Mrs.O!:" yeah, I understand everyone needs their grown up time and go out and hang out some times but honestly?..this guy sounds like a total douche."

Yeah I get that he needs his man time and everything, but he has hardly been home lately, he's always going out, I never get to go out unless I take the babe with me

Quoting Mrs.O!:" Lock the doors and leave a note for him saying "this is me dealing with it" and let him deal with where ... [snip!] ... call him while he's out (which is also a rare occasion) and say "hey, your son is about to make me flip" he'll come right home."

lol I love the way you think I was going to say the same thing :-)

And now LO is biting my boob, it really hurts   She doesnt normally do this!

Quoting Elliot Reid:" And now LO is biting my boob, it really hurts   She doesnt normally do this!"

She can sense that you are about to lose it....

Quoting Elliot Reid:" Yeah I get that he needs his man time and everything, but he has hardly been home lately, he's always going out, I never get to go out unless I take the babe with me"

That how it always was with my BD. He thought since he worked and i didn't for the most part that he didn't need to help out with our child and when i did work he wouldn't help out to even watch her as i was working. well i got tired of the crap and left and now have an amazig guy who would rather spend time the three of us instead of going out and partying. Kids can also sense when you are frustrated.