So... SOs sleeping on the couch...

So before bed tonight SO comes into our room and tells me he's sleeping on the couch. He wasn't angry, and we haven't fought here lately.
Personally I thought things were going fairly well. But then he goes and wants to sleep on the couch? He also hasn't wanted to have sex for the last couple of days when usually he's the one begging for it.
I'm about to start my period so I know I've probably been a little bitchy without knowing it but he hasn't complained about that either.
So I don't get it. Why is he on the couch?
Would you be worried about it? Or would you think nothing of it?

Id think its kinda weird. You didn't ask him why?

Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" So before bed tonight SO comes into our room and tells me he's sleeping on the couch. He wasn't angry, ... [snip!] ... that either. So I don't get it. Why is he on the couch? Would you be worried about it? Or would you think nothing of it?"

why dont you just ask him why he's sleeping out there?

I would.wake him up and ask him.

Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" So before bed tonight SO comes into our room and tells me he's sleeping on the couch. He wasn't angry, ... [snip!] ... that either. So I don't get it. Why is he on the couch? Would you be worried about it? Or would you think nothing of it?"

I would have just asked him why. Maybe he's waiting for you to go to sleep so he can watch porn or something? I don't know. I usually just sleep on the couch when my daughter is out of school if we don't put the blow up bed up.

my SO sorta did the same thing, but he isn't feeling very well...maybe he is sick or starting to feel yucky or maybe he just wants so extra good sleep cause hes been tired...or at least i hope thats all...good luck girl

Is there a TV in the bedroom? Sometimes I sleep in whatever room has a TV because I want to fall asleep with it on and the bedroom I use doesn't have a TV.

Quoting gare bear's mommy:" Id think its kinda weird. You didn't ask him why?"

I did, and he just said he thinks the couch is comfy...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:</b>" So before bed tonight SO comes into our room and tells me he's sleeping on the couch. He wasn't angry, ... [snip!] ... that either. So I don't get it. Why is he on the couch? Would you be worried about it? Or would you think nothing of it?"</blockquote>




I couldn't sleep I would have to go and ask him and talk about it.

Id ask why.. I wouldnt let my SO just go sleep on the couch without telling me why and I wouldnt take a simple awnser either because I know if my SO was to sleep on the couch hes got something to say and its bothering him.

Quoting khigh:" Is there a TV in the bedroom? Sometimes I sleep in whatever room has a TV because I want to fall asleep with it on and the bedroom I use doesn't have a TV."

Nope he's passed out, no tv, no computer, just passed out on the couch.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:</b>" I did, and he just said he thinks the couch is comfy..."</blockquote>


Seems odd to me..

Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" I did, and he just said he thinks the couch is comfy..."

my BF is the same way, he will pass out on the couch and not want to go to bed becvause the couch helps his neck better then bed, so last week we both have been sleeping on the couch

Man flu?....

Is he normally one to bottle up his feelings or is he generally open with you?