Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" just told em my feelings and laid everything out on the line. lying and skipping around the truth of why you want to berak up isn't gonna help in the long run. good luck!"
Quoting *~Stella's Momma~*:" I'm normally the one who does the breaking... There's nothing you can say that's going to be nice. Whatever you say is going to hurt them. Period. Unfortunately that's how breaking up is."
Quoting Drippy Hairymuff:" It's been so long since I have broken up with someone. The last guy, we agreed we were better off as ... [snip!] ... nice. In all honesty, I would tell him that you don't see a future with him at this time, and you need to do your own thing."
Quoting Subtle As A Hurricane:" This. I also learned that the sooner you say something, the better. "
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" Yeah, I haven't broken up with someone in like 6 years. I've been with SO for 5."
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" I DID say it WEEKS ago. We are still together. I'm no good at this. All of the other times I was just a bitch about it, but I had my reasons for those men."
Quoting KNZ.:" hm, i've been the one to end all relationships i've ever been in. i guess i'm just honest, assuming ... [snip!] ... for you to be in a relationship. it might not be the honest reason or it might be, but i mean, it doesn't sound too harsh. "
Quoting Drippy Hairymuff:" If he is not getting it, I would say this, "Listen bitch. We're done. I don't want this anymore. PEACE." That's just me though."
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" lol before, or after I pack his stuff up? That's the problem. He lives here and we have a child."