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Need advice! Really Upset!

posted 1st Jan
I have been in and out of a relationship with my sons father for 3 years. He also has a 4 year old daughter with someone else. He emotionally abused me and the mother of his other child. I also found out that a girl accused him of putting his hands on her when my son was 2 months old. He has anger issues and blames it on other people. He is a recovering addict. Anyway. On Christmas Eve I found out he was in a relationship with a girl he met in a na meeting. When he came to pick up my son on Christmas for visitation he was crying telling me he loves me and will always love me. Then. The day after Christmas he tells me he is moving in with this girl this weekend!! They started dating December 16 and moved in this weekend end!! I don't know why but I still love him but I hate our relationship! His mom told me she does not like this girl at all. I don't want my son around her. I don't even know his address. He told me he wanted his own place and wanted to move out of his moms house. I can't believe he signed a year lease with a girl he has been dating for 2 weeks! He has no money. I only get $84 every two weeks for child support. I don't know how long this girl his been off drugs. My son I supposed to stay over night on the 12th. I don't want him to go. I have a bad feeling about this situation. It took about a month before he was accusing me of looking at other guys and throwing things at me. I'm soo upset about this situation. I have an attorney. I am going to call her tomorrow. I don't want him to not see his son but I think he made a very crazy choice. From what he says to me it sounds like he just jumped at a chance to leave his moms house and he was making me guilty because I didn't let him move in. I didn't let him move in because he gets moody angry jealous and controlling. Three weeks ago he was texting and calling nonstop now he is living with some recently divorced girl she's 33 but looks 40 and strung out!! I'm sorry about this rant! I'm just so shocked and upset. I don't even know how he is going to buy stuff for the kids!! What do you ladies think???
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I have 1 child & live in Chicago, Illinois
posted 1st Jan
Take a deep breath, Call your lawyer as soon as possible tomorrow morning and explain the situation.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Michigan
posted 1st Jan
Do you have Friend of the Court there?
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I live in Japan
posted 1st Jan
Quoting ★ASHLEY★:" Take a deep breath, Call your lawyer as soon as possible tomorrow morning and explain the situation."

 
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I'm due May 19th (a boy) & live in Wisconsin
posted 1st Jan
Id be uncomfortable sending my child also. He hasnt been with this woman long and they both have history. Id be seeking advice from your lawyer ASAP.
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I have 2 kids & live in New Zealand
posted 1st Jan
I will be calling my attorney. I do care about him. Does this soud like it's going to last? I know I shouldn't care but I do  
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I have 1 child & live in Chicago, Illinois
posted 1st Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting BaileysMum:</b>" Id be uncomfortable sending my child also. He hasnt been with this woman long and they both have history. Id be seeking advice from your lawyer ASAP."</blockquote>




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I have 2 kids & live in Halifax, Nova Scotia
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