If you are in love, answer this please.
posted 1st Jan
Have you ever loved someone so much they feel the most intense anxiety when you are apart from that person?
I ask because I am very much so in love with my boyfriend and when we are apart I honestly feel like I am going to go in a full blown panic attack. I have never in my life felt this way. Like I am going to stop breathing without him. It's so intense!
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stop breathing? that seems a bit intense, I love my husband, and it sucks when he is not around but...yeah, life does have to go on.
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That sounds a bit like separation anxiety.
I love my husband, but I don't get so worked up when he's not around.
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Quoting Rea:" stop breathing? that seems a bit intense, I love my husband, and it sucks when he is not around but...yeah, life does have to go on."
THIS!
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No, that's a bit much.
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I am very much in love with SO but not to the point where I'll have a panic attack when he's away. I miss him and I'll send him a text but that's about it..
We have to work and in order to work we have to be apart so I deal with it. Sometimes he has to leave town. So I deal with it.
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?posted 1st Jan
Uh no, that seems way intense. Don't get me wrong I love DH more than anything but when he's not around I can still function and live my life...
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<blockquote><b>Quoting Rea:</b>" stop breathing? that seems a bit intense, I love my husband, and it sucks when he is not around but...yeah, life does have to go on."</blockquote>
I mean im not doing it and I am not being a drama queen. It's like my body goes into shock when we are not together. It's definitely not something I can continuously deal with.
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Quoting Suit Up. [CNL]:" That sounds a bit like separation anxiety. I love my husband, but I don't get so worked up when he's not around."
quoteI have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in
Texasposted 1st Jan
Nope. That sounds a little.........clingy, to me.
I love my husband to no extent. But he was away for a straight 9 months and I missed him, but.....I survived. He works 12 hours a day now. Just makes me enjoy the time we have together more.
I enjoy some time away from DH, though.
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I'm stupidly in love with my husband, it's almost sick.
But, I definitely don't go into shock when he leaves, lol. I like it when he leaves the house.
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I love my fiancee and I miss him when he is gone but I don't stop breathing or have anxiety over it.
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No. Im not currently in love, but I have loved. But I think that there is something wrong...
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Are you co-dependent maybe?
I love my SO more than anyone in the world but when we're apart I don't feel like bad things will happen to either of us.
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Nope. Been together 11 years and love him intensely...
Never had a panic attack when he was away. Not even deployment.
Sounds like an unhealthy attachment to me, not love.
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