re: If you are in love, answer this please.

Quoting Carissa's Mama  :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rea:</b>" stop breathing? that seems a bit intense, I love my ... [snip!] ... queen. It's like my body goes into shock when we are not together. It's definitely not something I can continuously deal with."

I would wonder if you have a history of think like of thing, or by your picture, if you JUST had your baby. Babies can make us a bit off...but if not, yeah, i would work on that.

I've never had anxiety attacks when DH is gone lol. I live him with my whole heart & I do miss him when he's gone. Sometimes it's good too, though, to have time alone

I'm thinking separation anxiety sounds right. It's not me, I've never been clingy before and I don't act clingy towards him but I just kinda panic when he's not around. The longest we've been apart at a time is like 20 hours and I get quite flustered during that time.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rea:</b>" I would wonder if you have a history of think like of thing, or by your picture, if you JUST had your baby. Babies can make us a bit off...but if not, yeah, i would work on that."</blockquote>




She was 11 months in that picture she's about 21 months now lol so that's not it. But I'm thinking it'll stop soon. I knew it wasn't normal though.

When I was a starry-eyed teenager.

Sounds like codependency. Or separation anxiety. I'd see someone about that. I'm still madly in love w my man going on 9 yrs but I like my alone time sometimes when he's at work. When he's home I can be all over him or not just depends on my mood. But no I don't have anxiety when he's gone. I was codependent on him but since I've had kids I couldnt afford to be anymore. I have to still run the house when he's gone at least for their sake n hubby's sanity. He'd go to work til 11pm taking care of elderly then come home to take care of me. It wasn't fair n he was worrying bout me nonstop. Something had to change.

Yes but that is because I have attachment issues, trust issues, and some separation anxiety.

Yeah, I can't stand being without him here. I mean, we don't have to be on top of each other and I try to get to the other end of the house when he is here at times. lol. I'm not physically clingy, but I do have some emotional issues, I've been battling depression without meds for quite a few years now... I probably suffer from separation anxiety by the looks of this thread. I'm 100% aware that it's unhealthy to feel this way... And I wouldn't even say it is because I'm "so madly in love" with him... I mean yeah of course I love him but that's not the reason I freak...

When he's not here I just worry that something bad will happen to him or to us at home... like if he's late home from work (even only a short amount of time) I panic and think the worst, like he's been in an accident or something. He doesn't go out often other than that, thankfully.

I had some separation anxiety when we were dating (about 14 years ago) and I was out of the country for six weeks. But I haven't experienced that since. I believe because we're just much more secure in our relationship now.

I love my husband to the moon and back but when he's gone I feel like I can breathe MORE lol

Quoting InkDMomma:" I love my husband to the moon and back but when he's gone I feel like I can breathe MORE lol"

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Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:" !!!  "

seriously... he's been home almost 2 weeks... I'm going to lose my smurfing mind lol
I am relieved he goes back to work tomorrow.

Quoting InkDMomma:" seriously... he's been home almost 2 weeks... I'm going to lose my smurfing mind lol I am relieved he goes back to work tomorrow."

     
He left the other night with LO to sleep at his mothers.. I got a break from not only one of my pains in the asses but both of them  
I was one happy mommy.....















I did miss them the entire time and called like 50xs but I did enjoy it