re: Getting your tubes tied after second child?

at that age you are still young yet lol i wish i was going on 20 again im 31 having my first child a girl i always wanted a boy at my age i thought about getting my tubes tied but i still do want a little boy as well as a girl one of each would be awesome im happy my first is a little girl i dont love her any less then a little boy but maybe in a year after this one is born i will try for a boy my hubby wanted a boy as well but we both have to put thought into it if we want to try again for a boy

At your age wouldn't do it. Hell at my age (26) i wouldn't do it. I'm done having kids but what if something happens to my DH or existing children or my situation changes and more children become a real possibility and desire for me. Not wanting to get pregnant, although it feels like a permanent decision right now, could end up being a temporary decision and getting my tubes tied would be a permanent solution. I just don't want to take the chance.

And I doubt your insurance would even cover it. Most of the time there is a minimum age and numbe of children requirement for them to cover it. I know for my insurance is at least 25 and 3 kids unless you have other medical issues main pregnant dangerous for you.