I need to learn to speak guy.

Soe and DH have been ttc. We had a MC in November and we agreed to wait until I had 2 normal periods to start trying again. The past couple Weeks he hasnt been using a condom or pulling out like he normally does so I asked him if we were still waiting because we arent trying to prevent pregnancy ATM and last I knew we wanted to wait. Keep in mind ive been telling him im ready when he is wether its before 2 normal periods or later. Anyway his response was "we arent trying but we arent preventing it either. If you get pregnant then thats totally cool with me and of you dont then thats ok too." So im confused. Im pretty stupid when it comes to guy language. Are we trying or not? Lol

Hes pretty much saying if it happens it happens, Either way he is okay with it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting SamMarie!  :</b>" Hes pretty much saying if it happens it happens, Either way he is okay with it."</blockquote>




Lol OK. I was really confused.

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SamMarie!  :</b>" Hes pretty much saying if it happens it happens, Either way he is okay with it."</blockquote> Lol OK. I was really confused."

BUT< if you think about it, In reality, Its much better if your not trying really, for us we were trying really hard, and it never seemed to happen, once we stopped trying and just went with the flow it happened, Stay positive, he may be thinking if it happens it happens, But you watch, it will randomly happen :p

<blockquote><b>Quoting SamMarie!  :</b>" BUT< if you think about it, In reality, Its much better if your not trying really, for us we were ... [snip!] ... the flow it happened, Stay positive, he may be thinking if it happens it happens, But you watch, it will randomly happen :p"</blockquote>




Lol I hope so :-) I hate tracking my ovulation and everything. But I would like to have another baby. Lol. I've heard a lot of people say once they stopped trying and just let things take its course they got pregnant really fast. I hope I can be one of those people :-)

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SamMarie!  :</b>" BUT< if you think about it, In reality, ... [snip!] ... they stopped trying and just let things take its course they got pregnant really fast. I hope I can be one of those people :-)"

Its very true. we tried and tried and tried, i stressed and cried, then when i said blah forget it, its not going to happen, i missed my period the following month, and was 5 weeks pregnant when i found out , Here i am 15 almost 16 weeks! :p

<blockquote><b>Quoting SamMarie!  :</b>" Its very true. we tried and tried and tried, i stressed and cried, then when i said blah forget it, ... [snip!] ... to happen, i missed my period the following month, and was 5 weeks pregnant when i found out , Here i am 15 almost 16 weeks! :p"</blockquote>




Awwww congrats!! Do you want a boy or girl?

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SamMarie!  :</b>" Its very true. we tried and tried and tried, ... [snip!] ... when i found out , Here i am 15 almost 16 weeks! :p"</blockquote> Awwww congrats!! Do you want a boy or girl?"

i want a lil girl  

<blockquote><b>Quoting SamMarie!  :</b>" i want a lil girl  "</blockquote>




Me too :-) lol. I have 2 boys. Its time for a girl.

Sorry for your loss mama!... I also had a MC on Nov 25th...DH & I have not really talked about TTC again but started having unprotected sex since I stop bleeding...so I'm still waiting on my 1st AF if no show in two more weeks I will be testing ....have you got yours yet?

<blockquote><b>Quoting *ReIn@ + 3*:</b>" Sorry for your loss mama!... I also had a MC on Nov 25th...DH & I have not really talked about TTC again ... [snip!] ... I stop bleeding...so I'm still waiting on my 1st AF if no show in two more weeks I will be testing ....have you got yours yet?"</blockquote>




I was bleeding on and off until about 2 weeks ago. And 2 weeks ago is when DH stopped using protection. So we will know soon :-) lol are you wanting to get pregnant now?

<blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *ReIn@ + 3*:</b>" Sorry for your loss mama!... I also had a ... [snip!] ... ago. And 2 weeks ago is when DH stopped using protection. So we will know soon :-) lol are you wanting to get pregnant now?"</blockquote>


Oh I see...will good luck hope you get your BFP soon   .. will kind of but don't really want to think about it or track anything

<blockquote><b>Quoting *ReIn@ + 3*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *ReIn@ ... [snip!] ... I see...will good luck hope you get your BFP soon   .. will kind of but don't really want to think about it or track anything"</blockquote>




Thanks   lol yeahhh. Tracking sucks.. Im going to try not tracking or anything and see what happens. Good luck to you too!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *ReIn@ + 3*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Thanks   lol yeahhh. Tracking sucks.. Im going to try not tracking or anything and see what happens. Good luck to you too!  "</blockquote>



Thanks  ...hope we both get our BFP soon & lots of sticky dust too us both....Happy New Year!!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting *ReIn@ + 3*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *ReIn@ ... [snip!] ...  "</blockquote> Thanks  ...hope we both get our BFP soon & lots of sticky dust too us both....Happy New Year!!!!"</blockquote>




Lol definitely   happy new year to you too