My sister is with the bloke she has been with him 7 years, i wouldn't even call him a man, he doesn't even deserve children, hes got 3 children with her, hes pimped her out to his mates, hes beaten her god knows how many times and has hit the eldest, he checks her, and he has kicked her in stomach whilst pregnant and thrown his dinner at her when its not what he wants or how he likes it, she is restricted to one room and they dont even share a bedroom, she says she "loves" him, yeah yeah, hes stood her in corner in front of the kids and screamed your a smurfing whore, your worthless, i have been there when hes hit her, hes even hit me but i went the too police but she wouldnt press charges, so they dropped the case, her and the kids are always falling down stairs and stuff, and per usual last night she had another beating and she is pregnant..
i just fear so much for her and her kids and ive tried to get the kids out of that situation and kim but noone will help..
i just wondering what people suggest i can do? The social are like oh well investigate/ and it annoys me cos when i had pnd/ppd the was quick to come to my house to see if i was a good enough mum and when a real child is danger they dont care!
i just wish there was someone who could take me serious, i have seen the bruises and on the kids.
are the kids in school yet? If a teacher suspects abuse she has to report it to child protective services. If your sisters unwilling to press charges against him then im not sure if they will do anything about his abust towards her. Im not certain how it works there though
I agree that you should try contacting the school. I don't know what else to tell you as I am sure it's different there. Here, she wouldn't have to press charge, you could be the witness & a witness is not even needed. If she had repeated injuries & they kept getting called, the state would press charges on their own even if she is not cooperative for exactly this kind of situation.