BD Agreeable...

Anyone else have a flip flopping SO when it comes to TTC? DH and I had agreed on three kids...well we had our third in May but I just don't feel 'done'. I told him that early after we had our son but didn't push the idea of having another as I didn't want to freak him out.

Around friends he always jokes that we have too many kids and he is never having any more.. Recently though he confided in me that he'd love another baby. Surprisingly, in public, he still sticks to his old story of never wanting anymore kids.

Can anyone relate? Do you think he's just trying to me macho and be like a ' typical' guy and not act like he wants a ton of kids?

My husband does go back and forth, but not to that extent. We only have one, our son who is almost 3, and DH often says he is enough. About a week ago we were stuck together in the car for 1,400 miles so we talked about a lot, including future children and when would be a good time to ttc.

On the other hand, I do want another child, but I often joke in front of family and friends that we aren't having anymore. Perhaps he wants another, but just not right now? That's how I feel, I flip flop on my feelings. Although I am joking when I say DS is enough there is some truth to it. It is hard to have one child in our situation and I freak out at times thinking about adding another child into the mix.